"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl in class, has got the ass, I want to tap it, but first i have to trap it

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Well this thread is way overdone, but i need some advice on how to approach this one girl. She is in my class and I get some IoI's from her. She isn't super hot , http://profile.ak.fbcdn.net/v230/264/33/n738544832_2552.jpg , she is the girl on the right. I like her though she is kind of chubbyish

Anyhow she always gets to class right before it starts and this week she took off after the class went on break. It meets once a week and we have next week off. So I wont see her for two weeks and i was ready to talk to her today, but she left it was a bummer.

I was just going to go in and ask her name and try to make conversation of something. She doesnt get involved with people around her and she is always texting, but she ussually will have her head turned toward me. Its kind of weird actually its like she stares at me with her side vision.

Well seeing as all i have to work with is this girl who is on her phone all the time. What should i talk about. I am ok with just hitting on her, but when i hit on girls in the past we either communicate for a while or it all just dies in a trainwreck.

So my question is. I don't believe in scripts, but what are some good topics that you would say you could talk to any girl about. Topics that 70% of the time or more will get you some positive response or a response at all.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Try opening her with something about her texting all the time, since you don't really know much about her.

"Good to know that if I ever miss any notes you have them all saved to your phone!"

Just a rough idea for breaking the ice.. then give her the nickname "lightning" for lightning fast texter. Girls dig it when you give them nicknames.

Just an idea. That's how I would do it. Of course don't make that the focus of the conversation, just use it to break the ice then shift the conversation into the direction you want to go.
 

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Espi said:
Say "hello." And smile.
For real. Don't spend too much time worrying about openers and conversation topics. Hell, I was at the bar last weekend and my dumba** just walked up to 3 random chicks, said "Hi." and walked away with 3 numbers. I'm meeting up with one of them tomorrow.

What to say? "Hey, how's it going?"
What to talk about? Whatever is happening around you.

You're in college, right? Okay so...
You: "Blah blah, this class isn't as hard as I thought it was."
Her: "Tee hee"
You: "The only thing hard is waking up for class after partying at (Bar)."
Her: "Tee hee"
You: "Have you ever been to (bar)?"
Her: "No"
You: Aw man, it's great. Hey, you gotta come. Cool...I'll let you know the next time I'm heading out there. What's your number?"

If you're happy, and smiling, and cool and fun, she can't resist you, even if she's not into you. Start the conversation with some normal, stupid college talk about class. And then move into other fun topics...
 
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