One on One
Master Don Juan
Alright, here's an update:
Today in class I was talking to this girl about her weekend plans and she said she didn't know, but her friends and her were probably going to go to some clubs. I could tell she was trying to tell me good information like, we might go to club X on X day. She didn't have plans, but I got the hint she would enjoy the company of my friends and I.
Additionally, she commented that I hadn't been online since we swapped screennames 2 days ago and I told her I was busy and might be able to get on this weekend (perfectly unavailable
). So, anyways, I knew she wanted to do something.
So, then I tell her to give me her phone number and I'll give her a call if we're going to go clubbing. I get the number no question and don't give mine to hers.
Also, of note is that while we were talking some more and walking to our cars, I was trying to plant a seed in her head. She was talking about getting a job so I jokingly suggested being a stripper. Then, she talked some and I learned she had gone to strip clubs, but unfortunately she found out I hadn't been to one.
Big thing I just remembered, she was talking about this one strip club and she said, "I haven't been in a while, we should go sometime!" Excellent!
Strip clubs aren't exactly my thing because it's just a tease and I'd rather go for action. I probably seem a bit naive to her having not been to one, but all is well.
Anyways, my question is if I should call this girl tonight if I can get my friends to go clubbing? I've been talking to her in class for about 2 weeks now (twice a week) and my friends are around this weekend. I don't have too many peeps that go clubbing with me and my best clubbing friend is going on a monthlong vacation next week. So, if I don't get something together this weekend, I might not be able to have any social proof if I were to get together with this girl. BTW, this girl has not proven yet that she is LTR material, but she would be nice to mess around with or even good as just a party girl friend to have.
I had been planning to ask her out to lunch after class, but she volunteered that she wouldn't be able to take a nap after class today because she had to drop off some job applications. I decided that I didn't want to risk a rejection when I'm certain she would go to lunch with me under normal circumstances.
Alright, so what do I do? I just got the number today, but I've known the girl for a while and already not used her screenname contact info for several days and she is wondering what is up, can I violate the 3 day rule and call on the same day? If I get the clubbing thing together, I'm going to see if I can get her to pre-game and drink with us. She loves her liquor, but she's underaged and can't drink at the club. I want to get her crazy!!
Thanks for helping.
Today in class I was talking to this girl about her weekend plans and she said she didn't know, but her friends and her were probably going to go to some clubs. I could tell she was trying to tell me good information like, we might go to club X on X day. She didn't have plans, but I got the hint she would enjoy the company of my friends and I.
Additionally, she commented that I hadn't been online since we swapped screennames 2 days ago and I told her I was busy and might be able to get on this weekend (perfectly unavailable
). So, anyways, I knew she wanted to do something. So, then I tell her to give me her phone number and I'll give her a call if we're going to go clubbing. I get the number no question and don't give mine to hers.
Also, of note is that while we were talking some more and walking to our cars, I was trying to plant a seed in her head. She was talking about getting a job so I jokingly suggested being a stripper. Then, she talked some and I learned she had gone to strip clubs, but unfortunately she found out I hadn't been to one.
Big thing I just remembered, she was talking about this one strip club and she said, "I haven't been in a while, we should go sometime!" Excellent!
Strip clubs aren't exactly my thing because it's just a tease and I'd rather go for action. I probably seem a bit naive to her having not been to one, but all is well.
Anyways, my question is if I should call this girl tonight if I can get my friends to go clubbing? I've been talking to her in class for about 2 weeks now (twice a week) and my friends are around this weekend. I don't have too many peeps that go clubbing with me and my best clubbing friend is going on a monthlong vacation next week. So, if I don't get something together this weekend, I might not be able to have any social proof if I were to get together with this girl. BTW, this girl has not proven yet that she is LTR material, but she would be nice to mess around with or even good as just a party girl friend to have.
I had been planning to ask her out to lunch after class, but she volunteered that she wouldn't be able to take a nap after class today because she had to drop off some job applications. I decided that I didn't want to risk a rejection when I'm certain she would go to lunch with me under normal circumstances.
Alright, so what do I do? I just got the number today, but I've known the girl for a while and already not used her screenname contact info for several days and she is wondering what is up, can I violate the 3 day rule and call on the same day? If I get the clubbing thing together, I'm going to see if I can get her to pre-game and drink with us. She loves her liquor, but she's underaged and can't drink at the club. I want to get her crazy!!
Thanks for helping.
