K B
Don Juan
Jprjrjrjr...I think we are related!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
girl im with found this site
- Thread starter skeeloo
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
learningtopimp
Senior Don Juan
You are going to see people of all different races together, and people of all different races who don't like each other. Seriously. White women who are ugly who like black men, white women who are hot who like black men (hello, Heidi Klum is married to Seal, a black guy) white women who are hot who don't want black men, hot black women who want white men, asian guys who want latina women, persians who want black women, I have seen all of those combos living here in Los Angeles.
I am not black or white but I don't think it is fair to assume one race is naturals at getting girls while one is incapable. It's just not. I do think black and white guys generally, not always but GENERALLY, have stereotypically different sense of fashion, dress, music, speech, etc. You have your Eminems and Clarence Thomas's to mix that up though.
Maybe black guys also pickup in different ways than white guys do, I've definetely noticed this. White guys or girls might be put off by this, but if it appeals to a white girl, just accept it, it doesn't concern you. And for a black guy, if the white girl rejects you, it's not always racism. And you are not entitled to have her date you. Just the same, if a white dude comes at a black woman the way she wants it and she likes him, black guys just gotta accept that.
Most white girls like white guys, most black women want black guys, etc. That's the way of the world. It's not racism, just preference. But if you like someone of another race and want to see if it goes anywhere, don't ever hold yourself back.
And don't forget, it's not just black and white. There are a lot of other ethnicities out there also.
I am not black or white but I don't think it is fair to assume one race is naturals at getting girls while one is incapable. It's just not. I do think black and white guys generally, not always but GENERALLY, have stereotypically different sense of fashion, dress, music, speech, etc. You have your Eminems and Clarence Thomas's to mix that up though.
Maybe black guys also pickup in different ways than white guys do, I've definetely noticed this. White guys or girls might be put off by this, but if it appeals to a white girl, just accept it, it doesn't concern you. And for a black guy, if the white girl rejects you, it's not always racism. And you are not entitled to have her date you. Just the same, if a white dude comes at a black woman the way she wants it and she likes him, black guys just gotta accept that.
Most white girls like white guys, most black women want black guys, etc. That's the way of the world. It's not racism, just preference. But if you like someone of another race and want to see if it goes anywhere, don't ever hold yourself back.
And don't forget, it's not just black and white. There are a lot of other ethnicities out there also.
K B
Don Juan
Thank You, learningtopimp. That is a very intelligent observation and I agree with you 100%.