Korrupt
Banned
So last night was the fourth time I've seen her, and the first time I went to her rather than her coming to me.
First of all, she had invited me to her place originally, then later told me (word for word):
"So, I'm at the bar by my place with my friend. You're welcome to come here and then we can head to my place. I'm sure you'll say no because you'll only want to hang with out clothes off lol but just throwing it out there."
As you can see, she thinks I'm only using her for sex. And this is after she expressed these same concerns last week, to which I told her she was wrong in her assumptions and that I do, in fact, want to get to know her, but it's difficult for me to open up.
Anyways... We go to the bar, have enough drinks to the point where we're very tipsy (I was on the verge of drunk since I never drink, but she was buying so I took them to be Mr. I'm-Not-Lame-And-Won't-Drink-Guy), then eventually head back to her place with her friend. Her friend gets what she needs and goes elsewhere to sleep, while we stay up and get sexual.
Mid-sex she needs a break and literally says, "ok so honesty time... How many girls are you fvcking other than me?" I tell her none. She says she "wishes I'd be honest" (i.e., doesn't believe me). This back-and-forth goes on for a little bit. Ask her why she doesn't believe me, her reasons were "you're hot and you know it", "you love the tinder life", "this isn't my first rodeo--I can tell when a guy actually likes me". Asked her why she thinks that I don't "actually like her", and she said it's because "I never talk to her" and that guys, in the past, who "actually liked her" would "text/talk to her all the time--even to the point where it would get annoying". I just told her that's not me. She tells me several times I'm being defensive, I tell her I'm not, etc., you get the picture. And her reasoning for bringing all this up is because we don't use condoms, so she wants to be "safe" (meaning STD's).
We fvck a couple more times, but I couldn't ***, and ^^^ comes up again. She eventually falls asleep on me, but I get up, put my sh!t on, tell her I'm going to go, she walks me out, says I "can leave if I want but don't have to", then I leave. No kiss goodbye. I didn't leave out of anger though, although she probably thinks that, I actually left because I wanted to sleep in my own bed and take my pre-bedtime supplements ha.
Thoughts?
First of all, she had invited me to her place originally, then later told me (word for word):
"So, I'm at the bar by my place with my friend. You're welcome to come here and then we can head to my place. I'm sure you'll say no because you'll only want to hang with out clothes off lol but just throwing it out there."
As you can see, she thinks I'm only using her for sex. And this is after she expressed these same concerns last week, to which I told her she was wrong in her assumptions and that I do, in fact, want to get to know her, but it's difficult for me to open up.
Anyways... We go to the bar, have enough drinks to the point where we're very tipsy (I was on the verge of drunk since I never drink, but she was buying so I took them to be Mr. I'm-Not-Lame-And-Won't-Drink-Guy), then eventually head back to her place with her friend. Her friend gets what she needs and goes elsewhere to sleep, while we stay up and get sexual.
Mid-sex she needs a break and literally says, "ok so honesty time... How many girls are you fvcking other than me?" I tell her none. She says she "wishes I'd be honest" (i.e., doesn't believe me). This back-and-forth goes on for a little bit. Ask her why she doesn't believe me, her reasons were "you're hot and you know it", "you love the tinder life", "this isn't my first rodeo--I can tell when a guy actually likes me". Asked her why she thinks that I don't "actually like her", and she said it's because "I never talk to her" and that guys, in the past, who "actually liked her" would "text/talk to her all the time--even to the point where it would get annoying". I just told her that's not me. She tells me several times I'm being defensive, I tell her I'm not, etc., you get the picture. And her reasoning for bringing all this up is because we don't use condoms, so she wants to be "safe" (meaning STD's).
We fvck a couple more times, but I couldn't ***, and ^^^ comes up again. She eventually falls asleep on me, but I get up, put my sh!t on, tell her I'm going to go, she walks me out, says I "can leave if I want but don't have to", then I leave. No kiss goodbye. I didn't leave out of anger though, although she probably thinks that, I actually left because I wanted to sleep in my own bed and take my pre-bedtime supplements ha.
Thoughts?
