"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl I'm seeing wants to participate in orgasmic meditation with a 'friend'

channingtatum

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Dude, I'm sorry to be the one to say this, but you have two longggggg threads on this board where you ask random internet strangers on what to do with every interaction you have with a woman. Man the **** up and make decisions for yourself.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MtnMan

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Hah, thanks
 

Malcontent

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channingtatum said:
Dude, I'm sorry to be the one to say this, but you have two longggggg threads on this board where you ask random internet strangers on what to do with every interaction you have with a woman. Man the **** up and make decisions for yourself.
That's what this forum is for if I'm not mistaken. Guys come here asking for advice or to start a discussion.
 

vinkoch

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This female really has you in a tricky spot eh? You agreed to not have sex with other females but she's not your girlfriend! Think about that and analyze this more. This makes you a candidate for the sex act because you're not romantically involved. And it wouldn't be emotionally cheating for another person to do it to her. What you do have is someone who is honest with you. If she was your girlfriend she'd be plain rude for talking about this. But she's not. You're overlooking this part.

What you need to do is consider why she wants to be sexually exclusive only. Maybe it's about std concerns and she wants to get to know you more before she's emotionally committed to you also.

I would say this to her. Since we aren't technically in a romantic relationship, I think I would be the perfect person to do the slow sex thing for you. She might just think it's cool you're understanding the boundaries and make her more bonded with you for going along with her and doing the act together without her feeling like she has to do it to be emotionally faithful when she's not quite there yet.
 
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