Girl I'm into suspects I'm a player & cancelled our date

[loveshogun]

Also, gentlemen, for shame. I just read the first two pages of responses, and it's all pretty much verbatim an article from Cosmopolitan:

"What does it mean when she _____?"

"Is my Facebook profile saying things about me that I don't want it to?"

"How do I make her vag*na melt in 10 easy steps?"

"What diet should I go on for swimsuit season?"

Seriously fellas. I understand that some of you guys are more experienced and get some fun out of dissecting examples of failure, etc.

But please, please, please, at least let the examples of failure be interesting?

All I see in this situation is a snooty, holier-than-thou girl who isn't worth Jariel's effort. She doesn't wanna party, let her be.

The best response so far was one word: NEXT.

 

[The_411]

How do you know when a woman is lying? Her lips are moving.

Men have to get this notion of the pure virtuous girl who is innocent out of their mind.

Women are devious and manipulative and will only cease this behavior when a) they get called on it and b) they find someone they feel that it might kill them to lose.

Even then it's always a fight as emotions aren't based in logic and since women don't operate from logic you're always dealing with the possibility they will not make sound rational decisions.

That's why it's preached to not be dependent outcome and to care less about the relationship than her. At any time a woman can be ruled by her emotions, which means she can cheat, exit, dump you etc. Once you get hooked in and have your emotions invested you're sunk because you become dependent upon her for decisions and react to her actions rather than the reverse.

As previously indicated we're are wired to lead and be dominant and women are physiologically wired to be submissive so a woman needs a man for his strengh and a man has a woman as a compliment to his life.

If you ever need a woman your "relationship" is doomed

 

[Jariel]

This girl contacted me yesterday and apologised. She's asked if I'd consider meeting up with her again. I accepted her offer and we went on a date last night. It was really good actually and I had a good time. This week she wants me to go to her place and watch a movie with her.

It shows that the textbook advice really does work. When she started playing games I cancelled our date, cut all contact and moved on. I refused to get sucked into her drama or reassure her.

A lot of guys think going no contact means 2 days of not texting as a strategy to win her back. When she doesn't text/call within that time, they change tactics and go chasing. I walked away from this girl prepared to never speak to her again...ever, and during that time she'd been regretting her behaviour.

She's still got a long way to go if she wants to prove herself as relationship material, but in the meantime I'm just looking to have some fun.