"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Girl I'm interested in posted her phone number on facebook

donjuanapprentice01

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
211
Reaction score
3
Alright, a girl I like posted her cell number on one of her friends walls on facebook. I'm awfully tempted to call, but I'm thinking this would be a bad idea. Or maybe send a text saying something like "hey I saw your number and thought I'd say hi... now you have mine" or something to that effect. I'm thinking a simple text might be ok.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Prodigy746

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2007
Messages
696
Reaction score
14
Honestly , i doubt that will work unless she is really really into you. I say most girls would think its weird and would get freaked out by it someone calling them even though they give them their number.
 

Commandante

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2009
Messages
234
Reaction score
5
In my opinion texting or calling girls on the phone you haven´t ever met IRL before is only waste of time. Except if you look like Brad Pitt and she knows it.
 

Irs88

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 13, 2008
Messages
161
Reaction score
0
wow....nono..while I read your post my head was nodding no repeatedly...i couldn't stop it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Gangster Of Love

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2002
Messages
2,574
Reaction score
66
Age
52
Location
Los Angeles
Prodigy746 said:
Honestly , i doubt that will work unless she is really really into you. I say most girls would think its weird and would get freaked out by it someone calling them even though they give them their number.
Plus it would server as a good reminder why girls shouldn't post their number on those type of sites. :nono:

Hottie posts cell phone number on a social networking site = Creepy internet guy calling you.
 

Sir_Turtle

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 7, 2008
Messages
87
Reaction score
1
Don't do it. I posted my number on facebook and got girls textin/calling me. If i didn't already know the girl and wasn't already attracted to her it was kinda creepy, and once you made the mistake of texting back/answering the calls it tended to go downhill from there and they wouldn't leave you alone or accept just friendship.

So i seriously suggest approach in real life. If it testing a stolen phone number from facebook smells of desperation to a guy like me.. I can only imagine the impression it gives a girl that was highly interested. Never use electronic communication if at all possible when you start to game a girl.
 

donjuanapprentice01

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
211
Reaction score
3
I've already been talking to her, just that she hasn't given me her number personally.

Your all probably right though. Don't want to come off as a creepy guy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Top