Girl I'm interested in has a boyfriend....she's showing me the signs though....

[Balla_Baby_69]

To understand the situation, think of Danny and Melinda in the past Real World season. Basically, she has a boyfriend but we have been spending some time together and she's showing me the signs and stuff and likes spending time with me, blah blah.

Her boyfriend is on the basketball team at my school (we are freshman) and they have been together for almost a year. But I think they are having problems. Like last night at the party I was with her and close to when it was time to leave her boyfriend came to the party and he didn't even talk to her and she was mad about that and (I quote) said "my boyfriend is an ***hole."

Also, I have never seen them together, not since I've been here (2 weeks). I've seen him around but never with her.

So, I'm guessing it would end sooner or later. I need advice on how to keep her interested until that happens so I won't end up in the friend zone by that time and also should I ever talk to her about her boyfriend? Cus I remember on the Real World Danny would talk to Melinda about her relationship and it seemed he was slyly convincing her to break up with him. And it worked.....

Any advice? BTW, I don't have oneitis. I'm talking to about 3 other girls at the moment.

 

[Balla_Baby_69]

bump

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by Balla_Baby_69
To understand the situation, think of Danny and Melinda in the past Real World season. Basically, she has a boyfriend but we have been spending some time together and she's showing me the signs and stuff and likes spending time with me, blah blah.

Her boyfriend is on the basketball team at my school (we are freshman) and they have been together for almost a year. But I think they are having problems. Like last night at the party I was with her and close to when it was time to leave her boyfriend came to the party and he didn't even talk to her and she was mad about that and (I quote) said "my boyfriend is an ***hole."

Also, I have never seen them together, not since I've been here (2 weeks). I've seen him around but never with her.

So, I'm guessing it would end sooner or later. I need advice on how to keep her interested until that happens so I won't end up in the friend zone by that time and also should I ever talk to her about her boyfriend? Cus I remember on the Real World Danny would talk to Melinda about her relationship and it seemed he was slyly convincing her to break up with him. And it worked.....

Any advice? BTW, I don't have oneitis. I'm talking to about 3 other girls at the moment.

dont talk about her boyfriend, if they having problems thats last thing she wanna think of, and thats what friends talk about, talk to her about fun stuff, try doing stuff with her "as friends" and hit on her.

 

[Balla_Baby_69]

So I shouldn't bring up that "80% of females are unhappy with their relationships" statistic?

 

[zzirf25]

Originally posted by Balla_Baby_69
So I shouldn't bring up that "80% of females are unhappy with their relationships" statistic?

No you shouldn't.

 

[NewMan]

"my boyfriend is an ***hole."

and he just happens to be the one fvcking her right now.

I wonder what get's her panties wet? her so called A##hole BF or spending time with you?

nuff said?

but we have been spending some time together and she's showing me the signs and stuff and likes spending time with me, blah blah.

yep - of course she does, your her new GF.

Any advice?

in 90%+ of these cases, the symp (the guy who is spending time with the girl) never gets the poon. why? because he's her GF, her emotional tampon.

Your better off not wasting your time with this chick - and if you are, you'd better make damn sure it is worth your time.

Tell her that you want her to hook you up with some of her hot friends. make it worth your time. Otherwise, tell her that you into her - and if she becomes single, to call you up.

my rule is, never be anyones GF.

 

[DJDamage]

Agree with everything NewMan said.

A$$hole is another word women use to describe a man that likes to do it his way and doesn't give a fvck because he knows he can get away with it.

He may be an A-hole to her today, but tomorow is another day where they will probably end up in bed together and make peace (without you knowing about it). Most relationships have ups and downs.

DjDamage