Girl i'm going out is rude sometimes

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1 She had little respect for you.
2 She just wanted to have sex a few times.
3 Since she had little respect (interest) for you, and she had the sex she wanted, she's not interested in you anymore.

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When you're getting to know a woman and she disrespects you doing "X", you call her out on it inmediately. You dont yell at her, you do not insult her or anything like this. You just tell her in a calm and firm way her that you dont find her behaviour acceptable and that if it continues you're dropping her, and then you keep doing whatever activity you were doing. This will produce two outcomes:
A) If she has any interest in you, she won't annoy you ever again, and she will like you even more than before.
B) If she doesn't, she will get annoyed and will start a bit of drama, and you won't probably see her again.

I go with option A everytime.
 

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This girl i'm going out with can be rude sometimes, she's 20 so she's pretty dumb, and i'm planning on calling her out on it, she has a tendency of making small criticisms, example: we were talking about arms and hands, she said she think my arms and hands are very handsome but that my nail are ugly, next date she said she liked my pants but that she thinks they're the wrong size.

How do i call her out on this? It's getting annoying.

I was planning on doing it Doc Love's way: 'you know, most guys hate this, but i must be insane cause i really like when you criticize me.'
Stop asking her out.

If she as any interest she will reach out, and be less rude. You may want to go as far as to NOT ask her out, and if she wonders why.....TELL HER.
 

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1 She had little respect for you.
2 She just wanted to have sex a few times.
3 Since she had little respect (interest) for you, and she had the sex she wanted, she's not interested in you anymore.

P.S.
When you're getting to know a woman and she disrespects you doing "X", you call her out on it inmediately. You dont yell at her, you do not insult her or anything like this. You just tell her in a calm and firm way her that you dont find her behaviour acceptable and that if it continues you're dropping her, and then you keep doing whatever activity you were doing. This will produce two outcomes:
A) If she has any interest in you, she won't annoy you ever again, and she will like you even more than before.
B) If she doesn't, she will get annoyed and will start a bit of drama, and you won't probably see her again.

I go with option A everytime.
Even better option for me would be to simply never see them again, i'm more of a LTR kind of guy, and people that do that are either badly raised and/or are badly mannered, either way they are terrible long term, so i'm not even going to waste my time trying to train or teach girls, if they don't fit the criteria, i'll simply move on. It was specially hard getting rid of this one because she broke my dryspell of a few months, so i got a bit infatuated and couldn't drop her even though all my instincts were telling me she was trouble.
 

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Stop asking her out.

If she as any interest she will reach out, and be less rude. You may want to go as far as to NOT ask her out, and if she wonders why.....TELL HER.
I'll probably just go with not asking them out and NOT even telling them why, just delete and move on, i'm tired of trying to teach stuff to women, i'm 24 and i've done more good things for women than i can count. I need a grown girl.
 

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I'll probably just go with not asking them out and NOT even telling them why, just delete and move on, i'm tired of trying to teach stuff to women, i'm 24 and i've done more good things for women than i can count. I need a grown girl.
Girl doesnt solve issues
 

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Tell her that you ruined your manicure by fingering pvssy all day. Or something similarly obnoxious. Then make fun of her looks. Can’t take a 20 y.o. girl with any degree of seriousness.
 

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How do i call her out on this? It's getting annoying.
She's teething you bra, and there is some nesting going on, she's trying to change your looks. Either you look too sexy or you dress like crap. Back to pants, are they tight? If they are tight, that means you look sexy, if they are baggy that means she wants to improve your looks.

Nails look ugly? That's a new one. Post pic of your nails.

They can be cut or uncut. Uncut is not sexy.
 

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I absolutely, positively don't subscribe to the whole "sh!t test" thing that so many men talk about.

"Sh!t test" is a nice way of describing rude, disrespectful behavior, which is never OK with me. The very reason that women sh!t test is that they are never called out on it. There are no consequences so it becomes more and more acceptable. Now it has become "all women are that way". Guess what? Only rude, social misfits are that way.

I don't ever remember being sh!t tested in my entire life, although maybe it happened in my younger years and I was blissfully unaware.

I certainly haven't been sh!t tested in the last 25 years. Now that is interesting, isn't it? Here you have a guy who has absolute zero tolerance for sh!t tests, and he literally never gets tested.

Worthy women do not sh!t test. Bar skanks, low class women, and feminists sh!t test.
Thing is, around 80% fall into one or more of these categories...most of us aren't so lucky as to avoid this type for whatever reason.
 

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I absolutely, positively don't subscribe to the whole "sh!t test" thing that so many men talk about.

"Sh!t test" is a nice way of describing rude, disrespectful behavior, which is never OK with me. The very reason that women sh!t test is that they are never called out on it. There are no consequences so it becomes more and more acceptable. Now it has become "all women are that way". Guess what? Only rude, social misfits are that way.

I don't ever remember being sh!t tested in my entire life, although maybe it happened in my younger years and I was blissfully unaware.

I certainly haven't been sh!t tested in the last 25 years. Now that is interesting, isn't it? Here you have a guy who has absolute zero tolerance for sh!t tests, and he literally never gets tested.

Worthy women do not sh!t test. Bar skanks, low class women, and feminists sh!t test.
I agree with uncle Atom. When I was spinning plates, which my current girlfriend was one of them, I do not remember her sh1t testing me once. However, I remember one of my plates constantly sh1t testing me and it got old really fast, so I dropped her. Come to think of it, she was just a nasty person in general, which jives with the "sh1t testing is just a nice way of describing rude behavior."

If anything, frame is more important. It was talked about a long time ago, and sometimes now, where if you "fail" a sh1t test then you'll get "insta-canned", but maybe the case really is she just wasn't into you, or it is in HER nature (not a woman's nature) to be impolite to people.

Either way, you guys are in your 20s, she's just teasing you. I wouldn't take it so seriously. Also, what do you mean she said your pants are the wrong size...are they too tight? That confused me a bit, next time just say, you're right and tell her to take them off. Have fun with it.
 

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I agree with uncle Atom. When I was spinning plates, which my current girlfriend was one of them, I do not remember her sh1t testing me once. However, I remember one of my plates constantly sh1t testing me and it got old really fast, so I dropped her. Come to think of it, she was just a nasty person in general, which jives with the "sh1t testing is just a nice way of describing rude behavior."

If anything, frame is more important. It was talked about a long time ago, and sometimes now, where if you "fail" a sh1t test then you'll get "insta-canned", but maybe the case really is she just wasn't into you, or it is in HER nature (not a woman's nature) to be impolite to people.

Either way, you guys are in your 20s, she's just teasing you. I wouldn't take it so seriously. Also, what do you mean she said your pants are the wrong size...are they too tight? That confused me a bit, next time just say, you're right and tell her to take them off. Have fun with it.
I was fine, i dress great, and i take care of my nails and everything, she just has bad manners, had no mom and dad, all that crap, and there were more put downs than these two i mentioned in my Original Post, i didnt mentioned them cause i wanted to rationalize her behavior, and i knew everyone would just tell me to get rid of her.
 
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This girl i'm going out with can be rude sometimes, she's 20 so she's pretty dumb, and i'm planning on calling her out on it, she has a tendency of making small criticisms, example: we were talking about arms and hands, she said she think my arms and hands are very handsome but that my nail are ugly, next date she said she liked my pants but that she thinks they're the wrong size.

How do i call her out on this? It's getting annoying.

I was planning on doing it Doc Love's way: 'you know, most guys hate this, but i must be insane cause i really like when you criticize me.'
Monkey branch onto her hotter younger friends and or sister.
 

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I was fine, i dress great, and i take care of my nails and everything, she just has bad manners, had no mom and dad, all that crap, and there were more put downs than these two i mentioned in my Original Post, i didnt mentioned them cause i wanted to rationalize her behavior, and i knew everyone would just tell me to get rid of her.
Get rid of her but, guy code. Smash rotten. Go ass to mouth. The revenge porn her.
 

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I already did, she broke a date we had set, got a date with a new girl tomorrow, it's all good.
Big ups mates.

That is 'game' in and of itself. Everything else is style, your own flare, and whatever it maybe that resonates with you. Its being on the grind, pulling baeeeees, smashin her rotten, and going to go get more girls. Lead generation and acquisition of prospects. It also bleeds into other areas of life.

You've come a long way from your 1st thread. Good stuff. Keep me posted.
 
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