good evening fellow Djs.
as I continue to learn, and I thought I had my stuff handled with women, I have met another one that is getting to stress me lately.
we have been dating for about a month now, she calls me everyday, at night, from her cousins cellphone, cuz she doesn't have a phone of her own, so she gets out of work late and then calls me, she acts interested generally, but lately her Interest level is going down.
this is getting into me, because we dont talk much, only late at night, and Im not on top of her in any way or controlling her, but since last week, when i ask her out, or tell her if I can pass by to see her for a bit (I only see her twice a week), lately she seems kinda, "oh im tired, tomorrow i work early, but ok pass by if you want" but not the kind of attitude that i would want... I would like "happy to see me attitude"
well last time I saw her 3 days ago, she seemed a lil off, she didnt seem into me when i tried to kiss her, and she kinda pulled away a couple times,,,, her escuse is "that she is going to the air force around may next year, and she is not sure" "but she likes me, wants to keep getting to know me, and takes me seriously" her words... so Its a mixed signal.... she says she takes me seriously but i dont see interest level, I ask her to the movies she is tired....
last night for thanks giving, she calls me at 9, from her cuzins' mom cell phone, and wishes me a happy thanksgiving, we talk for a bit,,,, i hang up and tell her ill call her later,,,, she texts me 5 minutes later that she will give then phone back to the mom, and that we talk tomorrow.... I call her, and tell her,, well you could call me later if anything from your cousins phone.
she gets nervous and says, well "im going out with some friends today (2 guys, and supposedly her brother also) not sure about that,,,, but she didnt ask me to go with her, and she worked the next morning, so she had no problem going out late with her friends..... feel a bit pushed aside, and not a good place to be... feel a lil disrespected....
QUESTION: her birthday is on monday,,, i kinda feel she likes me but just wants to have me on the side while she can do whatever she wants.. so i wont ask her out this weekend or call her....this is my question;;; if during this weekend she never mentions that she wants to see me or to come to her house, I want to delete her number, facebook, msn, and just disapear from her life... I wanna do this on monday, because its her birthday, and i feel she is playing me, so I wanna get back at her...
of course this would mean, i would never talk to her or see her again... i understand, I also want her to feel it, because i feel she is playing games with me,,, And i hate it...
is this ok? deleting her from facebook and msn for situations like this, if you guys feel disrespected, do you walk away like this, or just move on, and keep their the facebook, msn??
my friend tells me I am too radical, and that went girls piss me off, I just cut them and delete them... to me its not radical, its called, i dont feel in control of the situatino, feel disrespected, she doesnt seem to care, or that she wont change.... and i want to move on... but is deleting facebook and msn a mature move?
thanks
as I continue to learn, and I thought I had my stuff handled with women, I have met another one that is getting to stress me lately.
we have been dating for about a month now, she calls me everyday, at night, from her cousins cellphone, cuz she doesn't have a phone of her own, so she gets out of work late and then calls me, she acts interested generally, but lately her Interest level is going down.
this is getting into me, because we dont talk much, only late at night, and Im not on top of her in any way or controlling her, but since last week, when i ask her out, or tell her if I can pass by to see her for a bit (I only see her twice a week), lately she seems kinda, "oh im tired, tomorrow i work early, but ok pass by if you want" but not the kind of attitude that i would want... I would like "happy to see me attitude"
well last time I saw her 3 days ago, she seemed a lil off, she didnt seem into me when i tried to kiss her, and she kinda pulled away a couple times,,,, her escuse is "that she is going to the air force around may next year, and she is not sure" "but she likes me, wants to keep getting to know me, and takes me seriously" her words... so Its a mixed signal.... she says she takes me seriously but i dont see interest level, I ask her to the movies she is tired....
last night for thanks giving, she calls me at 9, from her cuzins' mom cell phone, and wishes me a happy thanksgiving, we talk for a bit,,,, i hang up and tell her ill call her later,,,, she texts me 5 minutes later that she will give then phone back to the mom, and that we talk tomorrow.... I call her, and tell her,, well you could call me later if anything from your cousins phone.
she gets nervous and says, well "im going out with some friends today (2 guys, and supposedly her brother also) not sure about that,,,, but she didnt ask me to go with her, and she worked the next morning, so she had no problem going out late with her friends..... feel a bit pushed aside, and not a good place to be... feel a lil disrespected....
QUESTION: her birthday is on monday,,, i kinda feel she likes me but just wants to have me on the side while she can do whatever she wants.. so i wont ask her out this weekend or call her....this is my question;;; if during this weekend she never mentions that she wants to see me or to come to her house, I want to delete her number, facebook, msn, and just disapear from her life... I wanna do this on monday, because its her birthday, and i feel she is playing me, so I wanna get back at her...
of course this would mean, i would never talk to her or see her again... i understand, I also want her to feel it, because i feel she is playing games with me,,, And i hate it...
is this ok? deleting her from facebook and msn for situations like this, if you guys feel disrespected, do you walk away like this, or just move on, and keep their the facebook, msn??
my friend tells me I am too radical, and that went girls piss me off, I just cut them and delete them... to me its not radical, its called, i dont feel in control of the situatino, feel disrespected, she doesnt seem to care, or that she wont change.... and i want to move on... but is deleting facebook and msn a mature move?
thanks