Girl ignored my text on FB how I proceed ?

[Casan0va]

I aproached chick on FB and I really really like her and she knows about it, so we talked and was all cool but she ignored my text, week later I sent next text and she ignored it too.What should I do ?

1) Ignore her and never speak again but not delete from friends
2) Delete,move on,forget
3) Wait till she gets a bf then delete

I really do not want to make 2) but I developed small Oneitis for her from other side I don't want to wait on my toes for her msg or even worse see her with some guy.The 2) seems more 'emo' to me and I think she expects me to do it.

1) seems more emotional stable and more cool but it give me some emotional damage and temptations to look at her photos or get mad if she gets bf

2) 3) feels butthurt ...
1) is keeping me on backburner, she knows how much I like it and if she laters msg me and I speak to her again after such disrespect won't it be a beta frame ?

SO ... ? I hate mind fck games

 

[Darth]

she ignored my text, week later I sent next text and she ignored it too.

For me, disrespect from a woman is the cardinal sin-I would block her from everything and never talk to her again.

 

[Casan0va]

1) Ignore her and never speak again but not delete from friends Why would you have her on "friends" if you never intend to speak to her again?


To show I dont give a fck ?


3) Wait till she gets a bf then deletenow THIS is butthurt. Just delete her now and show her you actually love yourself and have some self-respect.

I have feeling she did it on purpose, she could string me along or just be friendly, instead she disrespected me to make me remove her from my life or see if I have balls to do it.

 

[Casan0va]

So show her you DO have the balls and do it. Delete her azz. You want to "show her you don't give a fvck". GOOD. Best way to do this is to completely remove her from your world.

If she doesnt like me anymore why she didn't delete me or block me ? Why ignoring.

 

[Mr Wright]

If she doesnt like me anymore why she didn't delete me or block me ? Why ignoring.

Ego. Girls sit around like "look at all these guys who are obsessed with me." *pulls out phone and scrolls through messages*
How can she show people you're obsessed with her if you're blocked?

 

[amazingswayze]

She is a waste of time. Learn about spinning plates. Your confidence should not depend on one girl. Get your **** together, and avoid oneitis at all costs. Let's see you start a journal! PM me if you feel the need.

 

[Casan0va]

I didnt delete her instead I talked with her.

Looks she gave me 'silent treatment' because I followed DJ rules and randomly ignore her/vanish ... how Im suppose to use it now if she developed counter- measure ? Chicks have game too.

 

[pyros]

OP is silly as f***.

Random girl you talk to on fb. She ignores you twice.

DELETE HER AND MOVE ON, jeez.


P.S.

Go talk to another chick on fb that actually wants to talk to you.

 

[GS750]

This ties into my opinion that FB is a woman's arena, along with most other social media. Trust me you are not the only dude trying to get this chicks attention on FB, sending her messages, and liking her stupid photos that she uploaded from her iPhone for attention.

I aproached chick on FB and I really really like her and she knows about it, so we talked and was all cool but she ignored my text, week later I sent next text and she ignored it too.What should I do ? She ignored two of your texts. Clue. Don't contact her again.

1) Ignore her and never speak again but not delete from friends
2) Delete,move on,forget Ding ding ding. Winning answer
3) Wait till she gets a bf then delete She won't even notice. She'll be in NRE with her new BF.

I really do not want to make 2) but I developed small Oneitis for her from other side I don't want to wait on my toes for her msg or even worse see her with some guy.The 2) seems more 'emo' to me and I think she expects me to do it. putting way too much thought into this.

1) seems more emotional stable and more cool but it give me some emotional damage and temptations to look at her photos or get mad if she gets bf Just delete her from FB and move on

2) 3) feels butthurt ...
1) is keeping me on backburner, she knows how much I like it and if she laters msg me and I speak to her again after such disrespect won't it be a beta frame ? beta frame? you're analyzing this like a high school girl while this chick probably hasn't given you a second thought.

SO ... ? I hate mind fck games

Then don't play them. Just delete her from FB and lose her number. Who cares if she thinks you look butthurt? Makes no sense.

 

[Casan0va]

I didn't listen to you and here is rest of the story ...

We restarted converstation and had amazing time, all cool, fun and smooth, one day she sent me her sexy pics.I was happy.Next day, she posts on FB she is going to marry. I thought it is a joke - it isn't.Wow just wow ... lessons learnt :

1) Red flag IS DAMN red flag
2) Your gut was right about the chick
3) She set me up for emotional damage for 'fun', I'm amazed by level of her maliciousness
4) Woman words mean nothing look only for action
5) I should have listen to you

I'm so glad after first RF I was very careful not to invest my emotions.I'm still emotionally hit but it would be nothing if not you and the red pill.

Somebody cheer me up ? I really was into her and I'm upset she was trying to damage me. She knew I really liked her. She looked like most innocent girl ever.

Why so evil ?

I wish I listen to you and block her when you told me to block ...

 

[Mr Wright]

I didn't listen to you and here is rest of the story ...

We restarted converstation and had amazing time, all cool, fun and smooth, one day she sent me her sexy pics.I was happy.Next day, she posts on FB she is going to marry. I thought it is a joke - it isn't.Wow just wow ... lessons learnt :

1) Red flag IS DAMN red flag
2) Your gut was right about the chick
3) She set me up for emotional damage for 'fun', I'm amazed by level of her maliciousness
4) Woman words mean nothing look only for action
5) I should have listen to you

I'm so glad after first RF I was very careful not to invest my emotions.I'm still emotionally hit but it would be nothing if not you and the red pill.

Somebody cheer me up ? I really was into her and I'm upset she was trying to damage me. She knew I really liked her. She looked like most innocent girl ever. Why so evil ?

You'll find that as a man in this kind of situation you will only be as upset as much as you allow your boundaries to be compromised. In other words, her actions are going to stay pretty consistent, she is what she is. But if you start bending over backwards and making allowances for shïtty behaviour, when you inevitably get burned it hurts twice as much because you've been done twice. Once by her, that doesn't really hurt but it's the fact that she had power of you. You gave her the power and she violated it, she doesn't give two craps about you, you were entertainment. You allowed her to change who you were for the sake of what? A few naked pics or in other cases some püssy. It's never worth it. Stick to your guns. You've learned a massive lesson, if you listen to the advice you get on here, you'll end up in better place.

 

[Casan0va]

I feel I could have her but I made mistake somewhere and failed to create attraction or maybe she wanted me give this illusion to hurt me, that I could have her but I screwed up.From the other side, she is going to marry dude straight off the bat that's not sign of emotionally stable person.

Now, I need to kiss goodbye my Disney dreams of life with her.She was so cute and innocent looking.

 

[amazingswayze]

don't proceed. she disrespected you once. you could give her the benefit of the doubt, but when you feel like being ignored, you probably are.

at least you know how to handle yourself the next time this happens.

you don't have time for girls like her. the only girls who value your time are the ones that respect you. learn to differentiate.

you'll get over this in no time, my friend.

 

[Casan0va]

I can't grasp what kind of person she is.One day you flirt with somebody, laugh,act happy and send sexy pictures.Next day you say to some other dude 'Yes,I will' and zero explanations to other guy.Zero ****s given.If I would play people like this it would emotionally damage me.I feel she resented me because of some unknown reason but played nice and interested until she could emotionally hit me.Maybe she expected me to give her breakup drama or break down.

If not red pill knowledge, if not you guys ... I would be crushed.I feel sorry about men who experience such ****ty behaviour without the red pill guard.

 

[Yewki]

I really really like her

That's your problem. First sentence of your post.

And have you even met her?

 

[pyros]

OP, you're fvcked up in the head. I mean, you're way to naive.

1 You should not put any woman in a pedestal, ever.
2 You need a lot more experience with women.
3 You're too much of a white knight/beta/nice guy.
4 Go to therationalmale.com and read everything you can.


First lesson learnt: if a woman ignores/rejects you more than one time, you forget about her forever.


Cheers.

 

[yungballa]

Pleeeeasseee READ THE DJ BIBLE! You gon learn a lot my friend!

 

[Drummer93]

Don't delete her off of facebook.. that's what chicks do. You're attitude is looking at who's next.. move on. If she's interested, she'll contact you. Give it 3-5 months and reach out to her again if you're interested but read this clearly: she didn't respond because shes either distracted by other value or you gave her the same thing that EVERY GUY DOES. The same conversation and questions.. be unique, be different!I learned this the hard way with a woman I went on a date with and she went cold after. I was nervous, talked mostly about me and asked her every cliche question. It didn't help her move towards so I took 3 months off before contacting her again. I set a definite date and later she became my girlfriend (at the time).

Stand out my friend, heres an example:

Whenever I want to get a girl's attention on facebook, first I never comment on their pictures, I never like their pictures..etc.

Here's a thread you can start with any woman, ask a woman How's your fashion credibility? Why? you're giving her a chance to win YOU over. You want to know if you can trust her and see if she has good taste. It's feminine topic, lets see how feminine she is. If she says "What?" because most heady women have no idea what the word "Credibility" means, say "The question is pretty clear". She'll then google "fashion credibility" cause she doesn't want to sound stupid. She'll then say "I don't get it" or "what are you asking". You then say "... how good are you at judging fashion? better?" If she half answers it, shes not interested.. move on. If she says "It's pretty good, why?" shes interested. Tell her I have an event to go to and I am having a hard time deciding between two outfits. Lets put your skills to the test, ready? she'll respond with "Yes" or "Sure". Send her two outfits in suit then have fun with it. Keep it light and simple then MAKE DEFINITE PLANS by inviting her out for coffee or a drink.