There is a girl I liked who I used to hang out with a few months ago pretty regularly. Long story short--she had a BF, so i just played it cool and was waiting for her to break up. It was inevitable that she would break eventually break up with him given the way she was being treated.
Anyways, around a month ago while we were talking on the phone, she mentioned that she had broke up with the BF. Ever since that day it seems as if she has been ignoring and avoiding me. I was having a hard time getting a hold of her on the phone, and she would hardly return my calls. The last time i spoke to her was aorund 2 weeks ago over msn. I tried having a regular convo, but she started giving me one word answers, and then after a few mintues she stopped messaging me all together. I waited for 10 minutes then said "hey im leaving!", within a second she says "bye". This just confirmed that she had been intentionally ignoring me, so i ended up saying "thanks for ignoring me" before logging off. From that day on, i stopped getting on msn in hopes of her being on. I also stopped anticipating day after day that she would eventually call. I also forced myself not to call her.
Today (two weeks after the msn convo) while i was driving around the grocery stores parking lot, i spotted her in her car driving around. I thought i heard her honk but iam not 100% certain she did. Anyways, i ended up catching up behind her and trailed her as she pulled into a parking spot. Instead of pulling into the parking spot next to her, I pulled a left turn and drove away. I dont know why i drove away--it just felt totally involuntary.
Anyways, im not even sure if she saw me. Im not sure if it was her who honked. I am just worried that if she saw me, would she think i was rude?? Did i do a good thing by driving away? Would you have done the same? WILL SHE CALL?
Anyways, around a month ago while we were talking on the phone, she mentioned that she had broke up with the BF. Ever since that day it seems as if she has been ignoring and avoiding me. I was having a hard time getting a hold of her on the phone, and she would hardly return my calls. The last time i spoke to her was aorund 2 weeks ago over msn. I tried having a regular convo, but she started giving me one word answers, and then after a few mintues she stopped messaging me all together. I waited for 10 minutes then said "hey im leaving!", within a second she says "bye". This just confirmed that she had been intentionally ignoring me, so i ended up saying "thanks for ignoring me" before logging off. From that day on, i stopped getting on msn in hopes of her being on. I also stopped anticipating day after day that she would eventually call. I also forced myself not to call her.
Today (two weeks after the msn convo) while i was driving around the grocery stores parking lot, i spotted her in her car driving around. I thought i heard her honk but iam not 100% certain she did. Anyways, i ended up catching up behind her and trailed her as she pulled into a parking spot. Instead of pulling into the parking spot next to her, I pulled a left turn and drove away. I dont know why i drove away--it just felt totally involuntary.
Anyways, im not even sure if she saw me. Im not sure if it was her who honked. I am just worried that if she saw me, would she think i was rude?? Did i do a good thing by driving away? Would you have done the same? WILL SHE CALL?
