"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys does it ever pay to not go for the number right away? theres this girl I work with and I talked with her 3 times already each for longer and longer but I havent gone in for the number..is it ever good to play it cool for a little bit and act like you could careless or should I just go right for it? its not like im not gonna ask her out but I dont wanna be like every other guy and try jumpin her bones immediatly..because she is pretty hot so I know guys are prolly all over her so im tryin not to do that..I know sometimes this works but I also dont want her to lose interest..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't worry about her losing interest. She can't lose interest that doesn't exist.
 
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I have successfully hooked up with chicks from work before.

But be very careful cos if it backfires, then it can make things very awkward.

3 times is not really that much of conversation. Do you know if she's single or not?

I'd suggest gradually keep ramping the tension up in your convos until she gives a blatant sign of interest.

That way, you'll know she's interested.

Otherwise, stick to picking up chicks outside of work. Less issues if things go wrong.
 
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yea I know shes single and I think shes interested if I walk by where she is working shell always wave and smile and I dont really know her that well.
 
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Boned a girl I work with last week. Bad idea, but if you want to just make her like you when you talk to her. It's that simple. Don't ask her for her number right away. Wait at least a couple days and look for a tell to see if ****'s falling into place. If you don't see one **** it might as well ask her for it anyways. I've been known to smack my co workers on the ass if I think they got a great ass. You may get fired for sexual harassment, but who cares, you've got options and they need you more than you need them right?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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