“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl I went out with sees me again and does a 180 — why?

CollegeMan22

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So I went out with this girl one time last September and we had a decent time and kissed. I was busy with other plates so I kinda just let the situation fall and nothing came of it.

A week ago, I noticed that she had checked my social media (LinkedIn shows who looks at your profile). Today, I was walking down a street at my college campus. I saw her walking with a friend. When she noticed me, she did a literal 180 and started walking the other direction, while her friend kept going the original direction and started laughing.

What does this mean is going on through her head? Never seen this before so I’m curious.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

SW15

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She had bad feelings after the incident. It was solely kissing and not sex. The best advice is to ignore it.
 

Stanley

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Doesn't matter, we could come up with all sorts of conjecture as to why she did, but the result is the same. She has her reasons and be at peace with that.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Macadellic

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She doesn’t want to talk to you.
I would have laughed (let her friend see me laugh)
would have said hi to the friend and kept walking
 

HaleyBaron

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To be young again. Just laugh it off and keep living. At least you know you're on her mind.
 
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