"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girl i picked up a year ago and took out once is here.

big weezy

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this is funny, the girl i met in starbucks a year ago, who i thought had attraction but never replied to me, who then called me a few months later and i finally took out but then never met up for a date 2 is in this starbucks.

she didnt even bother to get dressed up for me which shows u she has no interest at all, but i thought i did well on the date. when i text her to dress up for me she never responded. i think she's just an AW or simply not interested.

either way, i called her again a couple months ago no response. im sitting here typing on the computer and she comes in, doesn't see me.. tbh i doubt she recognises me cos when we finally met up for out date it was like 6 months after.. and that was like 6 months ago. so this is the 3rd time she's seen me.

i dont even look at her or turn my head, shes next to me on a high table, i think she's looked at me a couple times but i haven't bothered to even acknowledge her. we haven't met eye contact.

basically i'm in a 'fvck u' kind of attitude. she came by to use the mains plug next to me but tactifully has sat with her back facing me. i'm not going to initiate any contact with her at all.. she doesn't exist to me. this is the attitude u should have with every girl who isn't interested in you. she's nothing.

in the past i may be all 'how can i get her? or what can i say etc' now i just dont care, and she's just another number.. treat women like how women treat men.. i'm just another guy? fine, you're just anothe girl. no big deal. there'll be more in my life before and after you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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she doesnt exist to you, but you scoped out all her movements, how she may have looked at you, how she sat with her back facing you, all the while typing up a whole thread about her. lol
you only sound angry to me.
 

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trrush said:
she doesnt exist to you, but you scoped out all her movements, how she may have looked at you, how she sat with her back facing you, all the while typing up a whole thread about her. lol
you only sound angry to me.
yes you're right, true im bitter about it but im a competitive person so i feel i lost in that battle, but im very aware of my surroundings and whats happening.

it's prob better to say that im not as p1ssed off about it as i would have been a year ago or in general, normally when i lose girls like this i'm really angry for weeks on end.. i just realised now i'm more relaxed than i was as i know eventually i'll be in new pick up situations new girls, that she won't matter anymore after a while.
 

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So??? Your the king. It's her loss. She's just another girl. don't pay any mind to her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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IamJosan

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trrush said:
she doesnt exist to you, but you scoped out all her movements, how she may have looked at you, how she sat with her back facing you, all the while typing up a whole thread about her. lol
you only sound angry to me.
If she doesn't know that he knows she's there, then she doesn't exist. :D
 

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You seriously didn't need to make a new thread about this. I'm sorry for being so direct, but it was just completely unnecessary.

Start a pick up journal thread, and then feel free to post this kinda stuff in it.
 

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lol "shes" only another girl if there is no investment on his behalf...

CLEARLY he's invested some feelings here, he's a competitive man ;)

Let me put it this way, would you walk away from your savings account that you've been plugging for a few months?

OP, someone said something very true to me once.

You can have all the game, all the suaveness and every single trick up your sleeve. But if you can't create the initial attraction/spark, then it's all worthless.

Investing without attraction, is worthless. So she called you up a few months later, so you crossed her mind, so she was bored! the harsh reality is that initial attraction would've lured her your way, much much sooner than a few months later.

Keep switching plates until you find something you really want, create the spark by being your amazing self, and revel in the glory.
 

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Diaforetikos said:
You seriously didn't need to make a new thread about this. I'm sorry for being so direct, but it was just completely unnecessary.

Start a pick up journal thread, and then feel free to post this kinda stuff in it.
Hah. Agreed.

And big weezy, what's up with you and the Starbucks, man? All your stories revolve around a Starbucks. You live in a small town or something?

I can't help but picture some slightly overweight man with a breathing problem spending 10 hours a day at those tiny Starbucks tables. Kinda funny.
 
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