"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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girl I mutually agreed to break up with stops talking to me altogether????

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Dave111

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I recently broke up with a girl whom I work with (yes I know, shouldn't date any of my work girls!), which was a mutual thing. She started acting really flakey and unsure if she wanted a relationship with me, so I decided I'd make her mind up for her and said to her that we should just end it right now, to which she agreed. We had been good friends for a year before we started dating each other. We dated on and off for about 3 months, before we decided to just remain friends

I am happy with the disicion I've made to end it as I feel that she has far too much emotional baggage from previous relationships and as of the past week or so has started to completely ignore me altogether. Does this mean that it wasn't a mutual thing and that she has feelings still?

girls just confuse the **** outta me!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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triple_ultima

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Um....boohoo.

Who cares if she ignores you? You guys broke up! Why are you even paying any attention to her? You have more important things to do now than to worry about whether your ex still has feelings for you or not.
 
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The TallOne

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This is a easy one.

Ignore her back, who cares what she does.

Move on.
 
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Bonhomme

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Yup. She still has feelings for you.

... but there's not much you can do.

If you have her email address you can send an email telling her you care for her and wish her the best, but you're just not right for each other.

Then leave it at that. Don't say too much. Loose lips (or typing fingers) sink ships.
 
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aBAzLLnA

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Isn't this to be expected? Haha, i'm surprised you're surprised...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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