girl i met on yahoo

[salthepal]

hey everyone,

i recently met a girl from my town on yahoo. She's playing hard to get as usual, but i'm teasing her even more, and throwing her stuff back on her. and of course udsing the famous c+f although im not sure if it works on IM

She told me she studies literature, but said she won't tell me her name so i won't come looking for her at univ. I told her it wouldn't make sense, coz it's easier to set a rendez-vous and see her. Here she gave me the standard "I don't set up rendez-vous with strangers", to which i replied to her "you brought this up, you suggested that i'll come to see you". She changed the subject fast

then she wanted to see my picture, and i didn't show it to her. Told her i only trade pics, so if she wants to show me her pic i would show her my pic. This has been going on for 2 days. Today she saw a group photo on my profile but i didn't tell her which one was me. she got all hot and bothered, and said she doesn't want to know yeah right


what i need help on, is how to get her to agree to meet with me.
If i keep playing with her mind like i'm doing now, will that crack up the bytch shields she's putting up?

any ideas appreciated

thanks guys

 

[Mr. Latte]

If you put half the effort into meeting REAL girls...internet is cool to mess around and pass time, but get out and meet girls in real life.

 

[salthepal]

ur right mr. latte

but i'm talking about a girl who's in the same town, and even in the same univ. (ok, so our univ has about 50 000 students). she keeps chatting with me everytime i'm on the net, but i want to meet her for real. any tips?

 

[Mr. Latte]

Hmmm...ok, that makes a BIT more sense. Ask her to get some coffee after class.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

I got this one from David D's DVD series. If you still haven't taked to her on the phone, just Tell her:

"Listen, why don't we talk on the phone like NORMAL people do?"

If she she starts saying she doesn't have time or whatever, tell her, "let me call you right now for a couple of minutes."

If she won't give the number, you can tease her, accuse her of being a man, ugly, etc. Have fun.

When you get her on the phone tell her to meet you. If she still refuses you can C/F her, accuse her of being ugly, since she won't meet you.

The coffee on campus idea sounds good. If she can't get herself to meet you that way, then I would say she's a waste of time.

 

[salthepal]

hey thanks guys ..

great ideas , will definitely try them out .. right now, i'm teasing her , trying to get her very very interested in knowing me ..

of course she'll be trying to break my shell as well ..

do u think if she doesn't crack easily, will a threat of blocking her loosen her up? i mean is it a good idea if i tell her i don't need anymore internet friends, either u meet me in person or it's bye bye.

thanks again, and any other thoughts are welcome

 

[Porky]

Here's just an idea. Do you guys talk everyday on MSN? If so, then don't sign on for a week. Not even just a little. If she's used to talking to you constantly on IM, then when you take that away from her she'll be more willing to meet you.

Sounds good in theory, and works well in practice.

 

[salthepal]

Originally posted by Porky
Here's just an idea. Do you guys talk everyday on MSN? If so, then don't sign on for a week. Not even just a little. If she's used to talking to you constantly on IM, then when you take that away from her she'll be more willing to meet you.

Sounds good in theory, and works well in practice.

one way to know how well it will work .. i'm doing it right now ..

i'll avoid her for a few days and see what happens
thanks porky .. and thanks to mr latte and gangster..

keep the tips flowing guys ..

 

[Ricky]

Guys this is interesting to me because of recent experience.

I had a chance to meet a whole group of people that frequent a message board for a local sports team that I follow. This would include a crowd of primarily men, but a few women.

One particular girl in the group has posted pictures of herself. She is pretty darn cute. She PMed me on the forum and wanted to meet me after a few messages I traded. She also wanted to talk to me on instant messenger. She has never seen a picture of me.

As far as the instant messenger, I followed the advice of many on the board and avoided that. I think that would be kind of lame.

Anyways I showed up late where the group was meeting and flat out chickened out on meeting up with everyone. I didn't see her that night but yesterday I swore I saw a girl at a restauraunt in town that was her. Pretty funny but I still didn't introduce myself, in this case she was with a guy and it would have been awkward anyways.


In any event the whole online dating thing is a bit weird for me. I will probably meet up with this girl later when I have an extra ticket to a game. I just didn't want to meet a whole group of people I didn't know and I was pretty certain it would be not the best opportunity to talk to her as there were a ton of guys there. The funny part is they all tell her how hot she is. Pretty AFC and funny.

BTW I have had some luck online, so don't count it out. I especially recommend it if you ever move to a new town.

 

[salthepal]

thnx everyone

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by salthepal

what i need help on, is how to get her to agree to meet with me.
If i keep playing with her mind like i'm doing now, will that crack up the bytch shields she's putting up?

any ideas appreciated

thanks guys

Each time that you cross paths with her online, cut your conversation short because you have to "run to meet someone." If she asks who, tell her "just a friend you met online" and leave it at that.

In the meantime, introduce yourself to someone else online and set up meeting.

 

[salthepal]

i get what ur trying to say francisco ..

the thing with girls is they have weird minds; she doesn't mind staying up till 2 am to catch me on the net even when she's got classes the next morning, but she says she won't meet me ...

i'll have to make her drool with desire for me; after all that's what a DJ is supposed to do, right??

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by salthepal
i get what ur trying to say francisco ..

the thing with girls is they have weird minds; she doesn't mind staying up till 2 am to catch me on the net even when she's got classes the next morning, but she says she won't meet me ...

i'll have to make her drool with desire for me; after all that's what a DJ is supposed to do, right??

Absolutely, so the next time she catches you on-line at AM tell her that you are only on to send someone special an email. If she asks who tell her "just a nice girl I met online."

If she wants to meet you, she'll pick up. Otherwise she could be someone who is a AFC in her own right in that she thinks that just chatting online is the best or only type of relationship they could handle.

If thats the case, just tell her that you are busy each time she messages you. As long as you make yourself available to her online, she has no incentive to move things along. She'll become an emotional strain on your psyche and will possibly throw off your DJ skills.