"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl i like's friends are always with her

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Alright, so there is this girl i'd like to approach, but I am not sure how to do it because she is always with her friends, and to pull her away would just seem to awkward. What should i do?


Edit: She has already given me signals that i interpretted as her liking me(IOI's i think they are called?)
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Hooou man! In my opinion this is the worst game you can play :(

But there is an easy question: where can you meet your girl when she is alone?
easy answer: you can call her,you can chat with her on the internet.My advice is not to approach her while she is with her friends! Dont try to take her away from them because you may easily fall in a silly situation.

If you have a chance to spend some time alone with her dont waste it!
It can be from vital importance :)
 

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I was thinking phone more so than internet, I hear asking a girl online is bad. I leave for Basic Training next June, and have been working out a bit so I thought i would improve my game too. So I think if i cannot catch her at school, that I shall call her. Any tips for what I should have planned if she would like to hang out?(i.e. movies, coffee, go to the park?) I live in a smaller town so there isn't too much to do.(5,000 population)
 

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Assuming you get the date, food beats movie. You can talk to her over food, not so much over movie.
 

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Alright, thanks for the help man. I don't wanna come off as cheap, but i don't want to spend too much money either, incase it backfires. I guess I will see what happens.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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