Girl I like told me she liked me a lot...

[Insouciant]

The girl that I've liked for the past year and a half just told me yesterday that she likes me a lot.

Unfortunately, I told her that I felt the same way. I hope this response doesn't mean that her interest level drops for me.

We're very far away from each other most of the year because she goes to school overseas, but I would eventually like to establish a Long Distance Relationship with her.

I'm afraid that us expressing our "like" for each other can compromise the dynamics that we have; because we used to flirt a lot and have fun with it. I just don't want things to be awkward.

My question is, how do I escalate this now that we both told each other we like each other alot... and that we're both on top of each other's list?

I can't seal the deal with her because she's far away, and won't be back until months from now.

Thoughts? Thank you, DJ brothers.

 

[HBK]

I would recommend you read the DJ bible, and your answers are there, to your relative question.

http://www.nick-hill.com/djb/

Best of luck.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Keep your interactions very light and very flirtatious but not needy or desperate.

For example, I emailed a potential plate tonight. She stayed over recently and wouldn't fvck but blew me twice.
I started typing: "I was sort of hoping you'd `accidentally' leave something at my place and have to come back and get it."

But I stopped myself and wrote this instead: "I'm surprised you didn't `accidentally' leave something at my place etc etc etc"

I think it shows interest but doesn't come across as desperate. It's very ****y and fairly funny (IMO).

You'll have to keep your contact with this girl very light-hearted. Don't go all deep and meaningful on some girl you've never slept with and who lives so far away. Just be cool and always be ****y and funny.
The minute she thinks she has won your exclusive affection, you're fvcked.
Keep her guessing by only throwing her the occasional bone.

 

[pdx1138]

Unless she's going to be back permanently, months from now, you could be wasting your time.