"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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danro

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alrite im about 99% sure this girl likes me so thats not this issue. The issue is i want to ask her out but one of my other friends likes her quite a bit. Now not to be harsh to him but everyone who we hang out with knows that he has no chance with her at all. so should i talk to him about it and tell him im going to ask her out or should i just go ahead and ask her out? if i should talk to him how should i bring it up and what should i say?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ4Real

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Originally posted by danro
alrite im about 99% sure this girl likes me so thats not this issue. The issue is i want to ask her out but one of my other friends likes her quite a bit. Now not to be harsh to him but everyone who we hang out with knows that he has no chance with her at all. so should i talk to him about it and tell him im going to ask her out or should i just go ahead and ask her out? if i should talk to him how should i bring it up and what should i say?
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Don't "ask" her out. DJ's don't express with words, but through action.

Don't walk up to her and ask, "will you go out with me" because it kills the mystery of whether or not you like her or not.
 
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Morphiex

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umm yeah .....

be a good friend and tell your mate that ur gonna ask her out ,, props for that mate =)

then just ask her out one day casually , not infront of fifty people or sumthing , and dont say " hi do you want to go on a date with me" , say sumthing like , hey u got any plans for this weekend ? i thought we should hang out ... then think of sumthing u both would like to do , take her to shoot some pool or watch a movie at your place or hers ....
ps : u want the mystery , dont tell her what the date is gonna be yet , but say sumthing like wear confertable shoes or sumthing that shel need on the date .... =)
read the djbible if u havent yet.....

peace =)
 
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Does your friend have any chance? By the sound of things, hell no. She's into you. You're into her. Go for it. How your friend finds out is up to you. After the date, or after she says yes, who cares.
 
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