"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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alrite im about 99% sure this girl likes me so thats not this issue. The issue is i want to ask her out but one of my other friends likes her quite a bit. Now not to be harsh to him but everyone who we hang out with knows that he has no chance with her at all. so should i talk to him about it and tell him im going to ask her out or should i just go ahead and ask her out? if i should talk to him how should i bring it up and what should i say?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by danro
alrite im about 99% sure this girl likes me so thats not this issue. The issue is i want to ask her out but one of my other friends likes her quite a bit. Now not to be harsh to him but everyone who we hang out with knows that he has no chance with her at all. so should i talk to him about it and tell him im going to ask her out or should i just go ahead and ask her out? if i should talk to him how should i bring it up and what should i say?
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Don't "ask" her out. DJ's don't express with words, but through action.

Don't walk up to her and ask, "will you go out with me" because it kills the mystery of whether or not you like her or not.
 
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Morphiex

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umm yeah .....

be a good friend and tell your mate that ur gonna ask her out ,, props for that mate =)

then just ask her out one day casually , not infront of fifty people or sumthing , and dont say " hi do you want to go on a date with me" , say sumthing like , hey u got any plans for this weekend ? i thought we should hang out ... then think of sumthing u both would like to do , take her to shoot some pool or watch a movie at your place or hers ....
ps : u want the mystery , dont tell her what the date is gonna be yet , but say sumthing like wear confertable shoes or sumthing that shel need on the date .... =)
read the djbible if u havent yet.....

peace =)
 
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Does your friend have any chance? By the sound of things, hell no. She's into you. You're into her. Go for it. How your friend finds out is up to you. After the date, or after she says yes, who cares.
 
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