"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl I kiss-closed at Club: Distant-friends with my Ex

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I thought I hit the jackpot with this one, to find out this absolute 19 year-old hotty is DISTANT FRIENDS WITH MY EX. :kick: ............I kiss-closed her in a club last friday, got her details, one of my best approaches and deal closing I've ever done, what had to happen? She is friend with my ex girlfriend. What a fvcking coincedence! I saw her leave some wall messages on my ex's Facebook name .........................My ex's friends know me and obviously speak to this girl too.

Its been a week now, and we've been talking it up really good, I dont usually get girls I've kiss closed at clubs remebering me or even talking to me after a week. I haven't told her about my ex, dont intend to either, but what happens if she does FIND OUT? Because I'm going tobe seeing her, especially close to my ex's house.

Theres a world of problems with this, I wanna see her, go on a few dates, but the friends things is out of the question. Me and my ex are mortal enemies and she'll do anything to see me fall with any of her friends. I told her before we broke up, that she'll se me with one of her hottest friends holding hands down the street and now look whats happend LOL, I didn't even mean it, I just said it to p!ss her off, but now it looks like it's come back to reap what I sowed.

Should I just go in hell's glory and keep a low profile or what?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who cares? Just bang her friend and move on. This is the best way to gauge out your ex' eyes, if that is what you're after. If not, stop caring so much.
 
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SandHawk said:
Who cares? Just bang her friend and move on. This is the best way to gauge out your ex' eyes, if that is what you're after. If not, stop caring so much.
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Dude, I didn't tell her my REAL name thats the only reason why I'm caring right now. If my Ex see's us together, I could get an unexpected surprise the next time I see her and get played myself.
 
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don't make a big deal about it, don't even say anything about it, but if your ex finds out --- so what? She doesn't own your balls anymore, so her opinion doesn't matter anymore!

Don't rub it in her face if your ex brings it up, but for ALL purposes, you're doing nothing wrong.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who knows, maybe she is secretly stabbing your ex in the back. Women love to create some drama for the hell of it. For all you know she knows that her friend is your ex and she is simply seeing if she can compete on your exes level as far as attractiveness and guys. Women compete with each other just like guys do. Your friend pulls a hot chick then fails, you try and see if you can pull her. Its all a game and its fun! Stop caring!
 
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