"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl I kiss-closed at Club: Distant-friends with my Ex

Capodeciña

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I thought I hit the jackpot with this one, to find out this absolute 19 year-old hotty is DISTANT FRIENDS WITH MY EX. :kick: ............I kiss-closed her in a club last friday, got her details, one of my best approaches and deal closing I've ever done, what had to happen? She is friend with my ex girlfriend. What a fvcking coincedence! I saw her leave some wall messages on my ex's Facebook name .........................My ex's friends know me and obviously speak to this girl too.

Its been a week now, and we've been talking it up really good, I dont usually get girls I've kiss closed at clubs remebering me or even talking to me after a week. I haven't told her about my ex, dont intend to either, but what happens if she does FIND OUT? Because I'm going tobe seeing her, especially close to my ex's house.

Theres a world of problems with this, I wanna see her, go on a few dates, but the friends things is out of the question. Me and my ex are mortal enemies and she'll do anything to see me fall with any of her friends. I told her before we broke up, that she'll se me with one of her hottest friends holding hands down the street and now look whats happend LOL, I didn't even mean it, I just said it to p!ss her off, but now it looks like it's come back to reap what I sowed.

Should I just go in hell's glory and keep a low profile or what?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Who cares? Just bang her friend and move on. This is the best way to gauge out your ex' eyes, if that is what you're after. If not, stop caring so much.
 

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SandHawk said:
Who cares? Just bang her friend and move on. This is the best way to gauge out your ex' eyes, if that is what you're after. If not, stop caring so much.
Dude, I didn't tell her my REAL name thats the only reason why I'm caring right now. If my Ex see's us together, I could get an unexpected surprise the next time I see her and get played myself.
 

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don't make a big deal about it, don't even say anything about it, but if your ex finds out --- so what? She doesn't own your balls anymore, so her opinion doesn't matter anymore!

Don't rub it in her face if your ex brings it up, but for ALL purposes, you're doing nothing wrong.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Who knows, maybe she is secretly stabbing your ex in the back. Women love to create some drama for the hell of it. For all you know she knows that her friend is your ex and she is simply seeing if she can compete on your exes level as far as attractiveness and guys. Women compete with each other just like guys do. Your friend pulls a hot chick then fails, you try and see if you can pull her. Its all a game and its fun! Stop caring!
 
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