"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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icebox360

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alright, i liked this girl since i was 7 years old and we neen friends since i was ten years and then it had came to the point that she had to move out-of state so never saw her again un till my senoir year, i saw her working somewhere at somee grocerie store, and i almost fainted when i saw her, and when i saw her she was looking very attractive, and i think she was thinking the samething about me, and then after that we started talking and i had forgot to get her number(those was 1 of the things i regrett)so then after that i went to her job she wasn't working there no more, and since then i kept thinking about her and praying that i will see her again. so then, my senoir year has passed and i've graduated, but then i saw her on myspace lol,
so i add her , and then i got her number (yay):) so then we started talkin and then she told me that she had moved to atlanta(i live in miami)were she went to college:( but i call every other day and im thinking she's not answering the phone because when i call her from a diffrent phone she picks up the phone:eek: . but then i had read somebody's post talkin about "hard to get" when i women plays hard to get they want to test ur persisent and how easily you'll give up and becuse she tired of trying to fiqure out if u like her or not, because she's bore were the relatsionship stand. im thinking that is the problem, or else i could be wrong?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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backbreaker

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ut i call every other day and im thinking she's not answering the phone because when i call her from a diffrent phone she picks up the phone
she isn't answering the phone because she doesn't like you. she thinks you are creepy and she is probably getting gangbanged in a frat house as we speak.

I hate when people play games like call me from a different phone. I DIDN'T PICK UP THE PHONE BECAUSE I DON' WANT TO TALK TO YOU. WHAT MAKES YOU THINK I WANT TO TALK TO YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE ON A DIFFERENT PHONE.
 

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aww come on brom i don't think that she doen't like me ! she does like me ! because she doen't know that i like her or i won't tell her, because sometimes we have a friendly talk and maybe she doesn't have time to talk or watever
 

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Lets face it: You are dead weight to her from her past. She could care less if you called her from the moon.

She is in another state, attending another college. What are you thinking chasing her and being obssessed about her? whether you think she is attracted to you is irrelevent anymore because you missed your opportunity and now you are calling her like a chump and interrupting her hook ups with other men (what you think she is a nun? go ahead ask her if she is seeing someone else, its almost 99% chance that she will tell you that she is).

Let her go she is not the girl you knew before. Its time to find and date other chicks.
 

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ok) i see ur point!!! but do u think that i will ever have a chance wit her
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Phat

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lol bro u watch to many of the romance movies.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Phat said:
lol bro u watch to many of the romance movies.
holy ****... i was thinking the same thing... i was going to say "awwww its just like the notebook! CuuUUtE!!!"

you'd never think the people in the movies would go on an online forum to see how to get a girl... they prolly just skip that part of the story.
 
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