"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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icebox360

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alright, i liked this girl since i was 7 years old and we neen friends since i was ten years and then it had came to the point that she had to move out-of state so never saw her again un till my senoir year, i saw her working somewhere at somee grocerie store, and i almost fainted when i saw her, and when i saw her she was looking very attractive, and i think she was thinking the samething about me, and then after that we started talking and i had forgot to get her number(those was 1 of the things i regrett)so then after that i went to her job she wasn't working there no more, and since then i kept thinking about her and praying that i will see her again. so then, my senoir year has passed and i've graduated, but then i saw her on myspace lol,
so i add her , and then i got her number (yay):) so then we started talkin and then she told me that she had moved to atlanta(i live in miami)were she went to college:( but i call every other day and im thinking she's not answering the phone because when i call her from a diffrent phone she picks up the phone:eek: . but then i had read somebody's post talkin about "hard to get" when i women plays hard to get they want to test ur persisent and how easily you'll give up and becuse she tired of trying to fiqure out if u like her or not, because she's bore were the relatsionship stand. im thinking that is the problem, or else i could be wrong?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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backbreaker

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ut i call every other day and im thinking she's not answering the phone because when i call her from a diffrent phone she picks up the phone
she isn't answering the phone because she doesn't like you. she thinks you are creepy and she is probably getting gangbanged in a frat house as we speak.

I hate when people play games like call me from a different phone. I DIDN'T PICK UP THE PHONE BECAUSE I DON' WANT TO TALK TO YOU. WHAT MAKES YOU THINK I WANT TO TALK TO YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE ON A DIFFERENT PHONE.
 

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aww come on brom i don't think that she doen't like me ! she does like me ! because she doen't know that i like her or i won't tell her, because sometimes we have a friendly talk and maybe she doesn't have time to talk or watever
 

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Lets face it: You are dead weight to her from her past. She could care less if you called her from the moon.

She is in another state, attending another college. What are you thinking chasing her and being obssessed about her? whether you think she is attracted to you is irrelevent anymore because you missed your opportunity and now you are calling her like a chump and interrupting her hook ups with other men (what you think she is a nun? go ahead ask her if she is seeing someone else, its almost 99% chance that she will tell you that she is).

Let her go she is not the girl you knew before. Its time to find and date other chicks.
 

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ok) i see ur point!!! but do u think that i will ever have a chance wit her
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lol bro u watch to many of the romance movies.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Phat said:
lol bro u watch to many of the romance movies.
holy ****... i was thinking the same thing... i was going to say "awwww its just like the notebook! CuuUUtE!!!"

you'd never think the people in the movies would go on an online forum to see how to get a girl... they prolly just skip that part of the story.
 
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