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Senior Don Juan
Background:
I was dating this girl for two months. In the beginning everything went very well. We were having a lot of fun and the conversations really flowed. We would hang out once or twice a week and I would do my best to avoid boring dates, but the occasional movie would pop up once in a while. I slept over a few times and I felt things were really moving along.
Her interest level seemed higher than mine in the beginning. She was eager to hang out with me and always wondered if I was free to do anything during the weekend. Her interest quickly dropped though in a blink of an eye. I honestly don't know how it happened, but I must have fvcked up somewhere down the line. Some insight here would be nice. She became so cold and unresponsive to the point where I had to confront her about it. We were never exclusive, but she was the only girl I was really going for during the two months. I didn't want to be the one to bring anything up, but at times it would feel as if I was talking to a brick wall. I didn't want to spend any more time with a girl who didn't seem like she was even there so I did confront her this past Saturday.
To make long story short...we got to talking and this is how it basically went down. She said, "I don't know what I want." and as soon as she said that the LJBF alarm went off in my head and sure enough she follows with, "I still want to be friends." I told her that being friends would not work out and that was the end of the conversation.
I have not talked to her since Saturday. Following that conversation I deleted her from my phone, e-mail, everything that I could use to get in contact with her. We share a university class and the last time it meets is tomorrow. I sit next to her and I would move, but I enjoy talking to the people around me. If she doesn't like it she could move herself. I plan on being civil with her but I will not go out of my way to make conversation with her. I will only have to see her for one more hour tomorrow and then I'll hoefully never see her again.
Now to my main problem...
I was eating dinner with two of my friends tonight when I got a text from her. I knew it was her because I recognized the number She asked me when this major assignment we have been working on for the past several weeks was due. I kind of laughed when I read it because she knows damn well the answer to her own question. The due dates are posted online and she is the kind of girl to normally get her assignments done a few days early. The assignment in question is actually due tomorrow.
I have not responded to her text. I don't plan on it. I don't want to think about her anymore.
I probably already know the answer to this question but I am interested in what you guys think.
Was this just an excuse to get in contact with me? If so, why ask such a dumb question?
The thing is she has other people in the class she could ask, but she asked me.
I know I shouldn't care so much about what she is thinking, but to be honest I cared for this girl quite a bit. Everything was going great until it seemed like she fell off the face of the earth. My behavior did not change much. I always remained the same silly, kind of goofy guy I always have been around her. Whatever.
The best part of this though? It gives me an opportunity to ask out this new chick tomorrow
She seems to be much more fun and exciting just from her personality. It could be a good thing I ended it with this previous chick after all.
I was dating this girl for two months. In the beginning everything went very well. We were having a lot of fun and the conversations really flowed. We would hang out once or twice a week and I would do my best to avoid boring dates, but the occasional movie would pop up once in a while. I slept over a few times and I felt things were really moving along.
Her interest level seemed higher than mine in the beginning. She was eager to hang out with me and always wondered if I was free to do anything during the weekend. Her interest quickly dropped though in a blink of an eye. I honestly don't know how it happened, but I must have fvcked up somewhere down the line. Some insight here would be nice. She became so cold and unresponsive to the point where I had to confront her about it. We were never exclusive, but she was the only girl I was really going for during the two months. I didn't want to be the one to bring anything up, but at times it would feel as if I was talking to a brick wall. I didn't want to spend any more time with a girl who didn't seem like she was even there so I did confront her this past Saturday.
To make long story short...we got to talking and this is how it basically went down. She said, "I don't know what I want." and as soon as she said that the LJBF alarm went off in my head and sure enough she follows with, "I still want to be friends." I told her that being friends would not work out and that was the end of the conversation.
I have not talked to her since Saturday. Following that conversation I deleted her from my phone, e-mail, everything that I could use to get in contact with her. We share a university class and the last time it meets is tomorrow. I sit next to her and I would move, but I enjoy talking to the people around me. If she doesn't like it she could move herself. I plan on being civil with her but I will not go out of my way to make conversation with her. I will only have to see her for one more hour tomorrow and then I'll hoefully never see her again.
Now to my main problem...
I was eating dinner with two of my friends tonight when I got a text from her. I knew it was her because I recognized the number She asked me when this major assignment we have been working on for the past several weeks was due. I kind of laughed when I read it because she knows damn well the answer to her own question. The due dates are posted online and she is the kind of girl to normally get her assignments done a few days early. The assignment in question is actually due tomorrow.
I have not responded to her text. I don't plan on it. I don't want to think about her anymore.
I probably already know the answer to this question but I am interested in what you guys think.
Was this just an excuse to get in contact with me? If so, why ask such a dumb question?
The thing is she has other people in the class she could ask, but she asked me.
I know I shouldn't care so much about what she is thinking, but to be honest I cared for this girl quite a bit. Everything was going great until it seemed like she fell off the face of the earth. My behavior did not change much. I always remained the same silly, kind of goofy guy I always have been around her. Whatever.
The best part of this though? It gives me an opportunity to ask out this new chick tomorrow
She seems to be much more fun and exciting just from her personality. It could be a good thing I ended it with this previous chick after all.