"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl I don't know likes me and wants to go to prom with me. HELP!

MayHeM ThEoRy

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Ok so my friend's friend some how likes me. I don't know how because I've said like 2 words to her ever since I met her.

http://a137.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/33/l_d39f0ec24a5dde04543c0b74ecd63610.jpg


The one on the right. Now the problem is, her friend thinks I should go to prom with her, but I don't know what to do because I don't think I have the same feelings for her as she does for me, plus I talked to her on the phone and it was full of awkward silence and I really couldn't think of what to say.


So advice? I told her I'd talk to her at school and nothing more.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maxtro

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Do you already have a date for the prom? If not then go with her. Have lunch with her before then and get to know her a little.

For the record I did not go to my prom because I couldn't find a date and I very much regret that :(
 

MayHeM ThEoRy

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Maxtro said:
Do you already have a date for the prom? If not then go with her. Have lunch with her before then and get to know her a little.

For the record I did not go to my prom because I couldn't find a date and I very much regret that :(
The thing is, I don't really want to go to prom, I didn't go to homecoming and don't regret it. All I'm really missing is dancing, which I completely suck at. And if I really want to get laid I could just do it in college :p

And no I don't have a date, but I'm not sure what to do
 

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You may not regret not going now, but odds are you will when you are older. It's just one of those things that let you have good memories of high school.

Maybe the only reason I'm saying what I am is because I hated high school. And I didn't do half of the things that I wanted to.

Just meet and talk to the chick. She may be a cool person or she may be a total bitch. But it's better to know that to never know.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I just had a random girl try to get me to go to prom with her today. I have only talked to her twice and I though she was WAY OUT OF MY LEAGUE. A few days ago we had an awesome conversation at a basketball game (I made her laugh, talked about how to say ******* in sign language, and maintained eye contact) but I still thought she was out of my league...then all of a sudden she says she really likes me and wants to go to prom with me! Of course I like her too so it doesn't really help your situation, but just try talking to your *potential* date:)
 

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Unless you got other options...go for it. You don't even have to work for it and you are hesitating?? wtf.

YOU:"well, I hear miss wants to go to prom with me but is too shy to ask me?"
HER:":eek: "
-------blablabla
-------blablabla
YOU:"haha..but I don't even know you..it's gonna be so awkward..come at my place this weekend (or go to the movies) so we can get to know eachother.."

then at the movies, you bust her balls about being so shy and start saying that shy girls are boring,etc...challenge her to do some stupid (not too extreme) stuff in front of some ppl. (think about some **** that'd would get her in a playful mood)...and if it's at your place..you throw the same routine, and it might get diirrrrrrrrrty if you're smart.
 

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MayHeM ThEoRy said:
The thing is, I don't really want to go to prom, I didn't go to homecoming and don't regret it. All I'm really missing is dancing, which I completely suck at. And if I really want to get laid I could just do it in college :p

And no I don't have a date, but I'm not sure what to do
Dancing is the ****!!!
Why don't you like it? Its sooo fun once you get your 'groove' on ;)

I'd say, just go for it if you can't find a date. Your not gonna have another chance at prom later.
 

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take a swing dance class and you'll learn to appreciate dancing more. Google for a free class in your area. If there aren't any swing groups, try salsa.

And if the girl is hot, I'd go with her. If not, don't. The fact that there is awkward silence probably just means you need to work on your conversation skills -- unless you two are just totally different people with no commonalities.

For my senior prom, I had to ask nine different girls before I got a date (and the one I found didn't even go to my school). You seem to have it easy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Andromax

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Go to prom with her if you don't have any other dates.. if nothing else, being seen with chicks makes other chicks want you more. If you score with her, all the better. She is definitely doable, maybe a 6.5 or a 7. Maybe she is hotter idk, sometimes pics arent as flattering.

I went to 4 proms, what a waste of money! plus i sucked with chicks in high school so i got like 0 azz out of those prom dates.
 

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If you want to go and don't have a date take the little woman and let her experience a dj in the making.
 

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Kinda hot, though I really just wanted to say that I used that same Biology book for Biology I
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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