Girl I dated is slightly confusing.

[Dr. Dawg]

Here some facts before you read on:

- We dated for a month and 2 weeks
- She broke up with me
- It's been 6 weeks No Contact


Now on to more detail:

This afternoon a friend of mine knocked at my door. He was asking whether the rumours were true that I was to change University Accommodation. I told him they were, but I also wondered how he knew, since the only people who knew about it were my parents.

He went on to tell me that last night the girl had asked him if it was true - he, of course, didn't know at the time.

I think she could've overheard me talking about moving to the cleaners yesterday afternoon, but what I don't get is why she's so bothered about finding out if I am or aren't?

I would have thought that this bisch wouldn't care what I was doing or what I was up to ... am I rite?

I'm thinking it's a possible ego stroke on her behalf, but I'm not going to lie it is mystifying me nonetheless :box:

 

[Dr. Dawg]

*bump*

 

[eastcoast15]

Why is this confusing to you?

You dated her and she wants to know if your leaving school. Wouldn't you be curious if she was randomly leaving without telling you?

Even if there are no feelings left that's still a reasonable question for anyone who is significant in your life.

 

[Dr. Dawg]

Why is this confusing to you?

You dated her and she wants to know if your leaving school. Wouldn't you be curious if she was randomly leaving without telling you?

Even if there are no feelings left that's still a reasonable question for anyone who is significant in your life.

Significant in my life? She hasn't bothered talking to me in 6 weeks and then suddenly wonders if it's true I'm leaving. Wtf?!? Why is it suddenly a big deal for her?

If she had truly moved on, and doesn't feel anything more for me, then she wouldn't have given two ****s.

 

[Dr. Dawg]

Significant in my life? She hasn't bothered talking to me in 6 weeks and then suddenly wonders if it's true I'm leaving. Wtf?!? Why is it suddenly a big deal for her?

If she had truly moved on, and doesn't feel anything more for me, then she wouldn't have given two ****s.

Just to add I would only be curious that she was leaving university if I still had feelings for and FYI I'm not moving University, I'm changing accommodation.

 

[devilkingx2]

you're the one being weird.

you'd care about anyone you know well leaving the school, love 'em or hate 'em

 

[Dr. Dawg]

you're the one being weird.

you'd care about anyone you know well leaving the school, love 'em or hate 'em

Hmm OK.... Well my thoughts were true. My ex friend who viciously attacked me with a deodorant spray and a lighter has LIED about what happened to not only many of my friends including my Ex.

The little **** obviously likes her and has done everything to **** any chance of reconciliation with her. Now things are ****ing difficult.

 

[devilkingx2]

Hmm OK.... Well my thoughts were true. My ex friend who viciously attacked me with a deodorant spray and a lighter has LIED about what happened to not only many of my friends including my Ex.

The little **** obviously likes her and has done everything to **** any chance of reconciliation with her. Now things are ****ing difficult.

uhm... what.

we need details.

 

[Dr. Dawg]

What other details do you need?!

My ex friend attacked me for I reason with a deodorant can and a lighter. I hit him in self defence to push him away. He then lied to many of my friends who don't speak to me any more and to my ex gf.

I asked my ex why she dislikes me so much and will no longer speak to me. She told me "Because you hit him after he asked you to leave his room" which is bull****.

Luckily enough I've organised a meeting between me, the university rep and my ex friend. The little prick is cornered, I have 3 people effectively against him. The truth will come out for everyone to know.

I'm certain the truth will make it's way to my ex's ears. Either her or one of her friends will speak to me. Because as soon as she finds out, she'll have no reason to hate me and all the reasons to distrust my ex friend.

 

[Dr. Dawg]

Oh and last Friday I caught her looking at me often.

At one point she was trying so hard to ignore me. She was facing her friends talking to them and suddenly they looked at me too.

I did a sign with my eyebrows to say hi and one of them smiled back.

Honestly EVERYTHING is falling in to place. Everything I though would happen.

I'll keep you updated.

 

[Watawata]

Is she that hot? why dont you go after other girls?

 

[Dr. Dawg]

Is she that hot? why dont you go after other girls?

Without wanting to sound like a beta, yes she "that hot".

I just need advice on this.