guynamedluke
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Hi, there is this girl I am dating since middle of December, in january I had covid so we only met once. On third date we were at my place, I only got some boob action and she was dry humping me like crazy but said no to sex. After that we went on two more dates but did not go to my place. She said to me once that she knows that she is not the only one I am dating. After the fifth date she is not texting me sexually anymore only platonic. I know her through my friends and i like her personality a lot and would like to try something more with her. She was very shy till 22 and as far as I know only had one bad experience with a man that was a player and dumped her when she wanted more.
And I really dont want the player answers now because I wanna try ltr. Question is, now that she texts platonic after the date, do you think that she is getting distant because she got attached and I did not say anything about exclusivity and she wants something more or she just lost attraction. The dates went always well, there was kissing and she was talking all the time. She is 25.
Really my question is, is it possible that she is getting a little distant because of the fact that she had a bad experience and I did not yet say something about a relationship and she just wants to protect herself. Or is this total bs and I should just move on.
The problem is she fits my personality really well, if that was not the case I would dump her. I live in a smaller country so there really are not that many girls I fit well. Yeah scarcity mindset here.
And I really dont want the player answers now because I wanna try ltr. Question is, now that she texts platonic after the date, do you think that she is getting distant because she got attached and I did not say anything about exclusivity and she wants something more or she just lost attraction. The dates went always well, there was kissing and she was talking all the time. She is 25.
Really my question is, is it possible that she is getting a little distant because of the fact that she had a bad experience and I did not yet say something about a relationship and she just wants to protect herself. Or is this total bs and I should just move on.
The problem is she fits my personality really well, if that was not the case I would dump her. I live in a smaller country so there really are not that many girls I fit well. Yeah scarcity mindset here.