"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl here, but a "guys" girl...

Drum&Bass

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if a girl is cheating on her boyfriend with you / knows there is another guy that will be a LTR for her / on vacation away from anyone she knows then she won't care, if its only sex.

the bottom line is there is a plan B or a plan A.. if plan A fails, she will want something with plan B till a better plan comes along...if there is good evidence that plan A will work, and she likes plan B enough...she will hook up and flake on plan B.

it doesn't matter what you imply, at the end of the day the one who cares less comes out on top..

(this is true for all immature, irresponsible people that suck)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sav

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dunno if somebody already pointed it out to you..

but it hink you answered your own question.. he's working it out with his ex if he's not already back with her...

move on, and try your luck somewhere else...
 
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