Girl Help

[Mudding2]

Hi, Im new in this forums. Im 18 this year. I just need some help with the current situation I have. I know this is long but I really need some advice.

Basically I met this girl at a mates party yesterday. During this party, I talked to her and expressed my interest in her by telling her how unique and exotic she was (halfie), and I wanted her number. While she was hesitant at first, I used the technique of "prizing"(mentioned on this site), leaving her to talk to the other boys so that I dont seem desperate and making her "prize" me. Eventually she took my phone while i was away and place her number in it. Later that night while everybody was staying up, she rested on my shoulders sideways while I whispered in her ear that she was the most beautiful girl I know.

However, while I was about to leave(I havent talked to her for about 1hr since this), I briefly hugged her and gave her the customary kiss on the cheek, said "ill miss you" and left promptly. It happened really quick and didnt seem affectionate because I had to rush somewhere.

MY QUESTION IS: Was that too brief? I've got her number in my phone now and she seems to be commenting on photos of me and my friend on fb, but I dont know if I should go talk to her immediately, wait it out or play hard to get. What should I do now? Any advice is GREATLY APPRECIATED.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

When I got to this site, the articles on the main page seemed like gold mines.
They're not.

Stop using only techniques whenever you get a girl.

You did show a lot of interest, but only through talking.

Start being yourself and improving yourself instead.

I'd say you within today/tomorrow you should set up a day 2 before new years.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Hey dude. I obviously don't know you and how well you can express your sexuality to girls, but this is how it looks to me:

You built her up, putting her on a pedestal immediately. Then, you left her alone. Now, I haven't had enough successful nights to say for sure that you should spend most of your time with your target, but I've seen people be successful by never leaving their target alone. Also I've often been unsuccessful by giving her too much space until late in the night.

That aside, she rested on your shoulder, you kissed her on the cheek, she gave you her number. Those are big clues that you were doing other things right that you didn't write about, or that she loves male attention, and you gave it to her well. So set up a date ASAP! Be direct and honest, express your sexuality in short messages.

 

[black jesus]

It was different that you told her that she was exotic im no expert but i feel that she will wonder what makes her look exotic. i mean if u tell a girl shes beautiful she thinks of two things:
1 you think her face is beautiful
2 you think her body is beautiful
but by saying exotic it could mean anything from the color of her hair to how she dresses. props