"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl has many guys chasing her

xsmagic

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Im after this one particular girl who has two AFCs chasing after her. She tells me of how she doesn't want to be around them so I feel sympathy for my two AFC friends who are emotionally attached. She also has a few guy friends who she's always around. I'm also disappointed that:

1) I could become an emotional tampon to her :down:
2) She must feel very powerful when there are a couple guys chasing after her :down:

Sometimes its helpful when we see one of them because there's so many ways to tease her (e.g. put her in their company and just leave :crackup: ) or get on to the subject of relationships/sex when we talk about them.

BUT, in her eyes she's always going to be the prize :cheer: . SO how can I make myself the prize? Your thoughts please
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

ENIGMA16

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Rip on her a bit, act confident, keep it light. If she's not interested act like you don't care, go hit on other girls in front of her.
 
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