"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl has many guys chasing her

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xsmagic

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Im after this one particular girl who has two AFCs chasing after her. She tells me of how she doesn't want to be around them so I feel sympathy for my two AFC friends who are emotionally attached. She also has a few guy friends who she's always around. I'm also disappointed that:

1) I could become an emotional tampon to her :down:
2) She must feel very powerful when there are a couple guys chasing after her :down:

Sometimes its helpful when we see one of them because there's so many ways to tease her (e.g. put her in their company and just leave :crackup: ) or get on to the subject of relationships/sex when we talk about them.

BUT, in her eyes she's always going to be the prize :cheer: . SO how can I make myself the prize? Your thoughts please
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ENIGMA16

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Rip on her a bit, act confident, keep it light. If she's not interested act like you don't care, go hit on other girls in front of her.
 
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