"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've never had a girlfriend. 18, turning 19 next tuesday, and I have never had a girlfriend. However, let's not mistake this for not having game. I've taken massive steps this past year(Not even making out with a girl until I just turned 18 and having made out with 9 girls, oral by 3, and even f-closed 1 in the past year, so my game has drastically improved. I face a difficult situation though.

I've known this girl for about a few months. She has always been attracted to me from what I knew. I knew she's had a boyfriend the past year or two on and off. However, on two separate dates we've had(college interferes the time I have to hang out with her), we've made out. I can tell she has lost attraction to her boyfriend because she sighs everytime she's on the phone with him. Plus, the guy texted her a good 10-15 times during our date when she was out to check on her.

I've come to a conclusion that A) She's into me and B) She's into me way more than her boyfriend.

I've never been in a relationship, but she's probably one I'd be interested in pursuing one with. So how should I go about this process? I plan on seeing her next friday as I come back from college for SB that day. Do I just bring it up? Should I let her bring it up? This a topic where I don't know what the DJ thing to do would be. Advice would be greatly appreciated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You witness a girl treat her boyfriend like this, and you want to make her your girlfriend?

Go for it dude!! She sounds amazing!
 
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Your "g/f" to be is biting his dyck and swallowing his sperm!!! Congrats man - you're a winner!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Oh yeah never ask a girl for a relationship.

Just escalate physically. And wait for her to ask for one. Thats the DJ way.

It's too bad you aren't focusing on single girls that don't disrespect their boyfriends, though, for relationship material. Girls tend to follow a pattern :)
 
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I'm pretty sure there are plenty of single girls who have cheated on boyfriends because they turn AFC and insecure once they get deep into a relationship, then they just break up with the guy.

I'm also pretty sure that some of the girls ya'll have done have sucked on some dudes **** before lol.

Thanks for the advice though andro, I was pretty sure that was the way to go as well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Astro said:
I'm pretty sure there are plenty of single girls who have cheated on boyfriends because they turn AFC and insecure once they get deep into a relationship, then they just break up with the guy..
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Your mind is fvcked if you think such!!! They are hors by their own doing - quit blaming men for the hors reality!!! You have the mind of a chump to think such!!!
 
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