girl has a bad past history. what to look for?

[sexy_kuta]

so i been hitting off with this girl, things going smooth so far,

i been observing alot for little things that i could pick up which could lead to bigger things so far i got

-no mind games yet,

-doesnt crave attention, ie; phone once and if i dont pick up she doesnt call until the next day(s)

- she has a high interest level

- she isnt sluty

-she enjoys talking about me and she isnt always talkin about her self like the normal AW ho

But of course i am fully aware that these things could change, this is the first week of us talking and we talked a few times.

but alot of people told me she had a messed up history. she doesnt live with her dad but she works with her dad and things arent to great. she been through ALot of ****.

and someone told me to stay away from her because she is emotionial crazy.
but i havnt seen any signs of that. what do they mean by that?

they said that she just wants someone to talk too and is emotional krazy like she might get ppl after you if u mess with her..

i would listen to this person but also i wanna see it for my self so i decieded to take it a lil slower with her just to see if its true.

what is the best way to proceed with this or quick ways to find out shes not LTR material.

 

[flippinfreak]

Personally... every girl I have chilled with has emotional problems... every guy I know has em... every boss... every co worker... every customer...

They all have emotional problems!!!

It's up to you whether the problems are too much for you to handle or not.

I'd regail you with stories, but that is not my style. Just know that you have to weigh the pros and cons and just freaking go for it...

Plus... WE are still young, go for the crazy fish, have some fun before you settle down later in life.

PS "grab your balls" and ask her why people think she is crazy. Tell her people talk about her behind her back and it's scaring you...

Seriously, don't be afraid of the damned truth when it comes to women. If you hear a rumour, bring it up NOW instead of waiting for a few months, or revelling in your newfound knowledge of her. Not all rumours are true, some are BADLY mistaken, and what you really here and get to find out is the fun stuff...

 

[sexy_kuta]

oh yea no doubt about the rumors its just my cousin is telling me since he knew her for a year. His girlfriend is good friends with this girl

so i am going to talk to him 2morrow.. personsonally, my ex was a AW.. a big one and she fuked me real good but i got stronger, i can handle it.

im just a lil confused on making the move. should i go for her or not.. and im pissed off that i had to find out now. its a lil late, but like i said i will give it AT least one month to see how she is then i will decide whenever if i want a relationship with her.

 

[flippinfreak]

My opinion, if she is showing you signals... GO FOR IT!!!

You can always drill her for emotional problems later...

I stepped in a pile of poo the other week there. I have a court hearing against some psycho dad. Myself, my ex, and his ex are charging him with some corny ass stuff... I got dragged into the damned thing, now I have to deal with it...

It was all good though, I met a lot of new friends through her... She helped me turn some LJBF into "let's be friends with benefits". She was FIIIINE, and she could play some mean poker, and man. Her chub's cousin saved my ass from so many girls b!tching at me when I was drunk. All good times

One month was what it took for me to put all the pieces together as well before it all fell apart...

Again, just go for it. She shouldn't be your one and only at 16 right now anyways... I know a lot of those couples... let me tell you now, few of the girls are as faithful as it seems.

 

[sexy_kuta]

yea i guess i'll go for it but i'll take it slowly.. aint gonna hook up right away.

but im loving the signs im gettin from her, she shows alot of respect and class which i like.. no bul**** kitty games or mind games but i see what happens, shes into me i know that

shes also two years older than me maybe thats why

 

[Macgyver]

Everyone's got personality/emotional problems. The thing *YOU* should care most about is whether she knows how to take responsibility and is mature about it. The most mature thing you can do is talk to her about these "rumors." However she responds will lay the groundwork of what's sure to come for you in the near future.