2 months into a semi-serious dating/relationship thing i talk to this chick on the phone says shell call me later. Never calls so i give her a call its friday night wanna see what shes doing. So the phone picks up, i hear her say, no its melissa.
Flash forward, dont call her for four days finally talk to her and confront her about that call. She says shed rather not talk about it. I say well i need to and your not being very mature or communicative. She finally tells me she was hanging out with her X, he asked if it was me calling, and she lied and said no it was her sister. Keep in mind she had already told me that she was talking to her X still, she just broke up right before we got togethor, out of a year relationship. I was ok with this in the beginning.
I give major attitude, she knows it effected me. She said she didnt think that i would get this upset and i knew, and our relationship wasnt at that point yet. She still likes me and wants to hang out and hopes this doesnt ruin everything. She said shes sorry if it hurt me or anything etc. WOW! major blowback into a defensive low position. She takes control of the rings!
So what do i do? How do i take control back? Or do i just next?
Flash forward, dont call her for four days finally talk to her and confront her about that call. She says shed rather not talk about it. I say well i need to and your not being very mature or communicative. She finally tells me she was hanging out with her X, he asked if it was me calling, and she lied and said no it was her sister. Keep in mind she had already told me that she was talking to her X still, she just broke up right before we got togethor, out of a year relationship. I was ok with this in the beginning.
I give major attitude, she knows it effected me. She said she didnt think that i would get this upset and i knew, and our relationship wasnt at that point yet. She still likes me and wants to hang out and hopes this doesnt ruin everything. She said shes sorry if it hurt me or anything etc. WOW! major blowback into a defensive low position. She takes control of the rings!
So what do i do? How do i take control back? Or do i just next?