"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl hanging out with ex-bfs. Do I have a right to put my foot down?

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viking22

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Pathetic:

She sent me an email today saying that she cancelled her plans to hook up with this guy because she still loved me and did not want to hurt me.

She then gave me some BS excuse that the reason she's been thinking about other guys is because before she left for her country she saw that my eyes are still cold and she was not sure about me so she wanted to stay in touch with her ex boyfriends in case I broke her heart again. And when she is "sure" about me, she promises she will not talk to other guys.

She then claimed that she has been faithful to me and she was talking to these guys on the phone because they are her friends now and she doesn't have any feelings for them.

Unfortunately I don't know any way to block her emails so im ignoring and hoping she'll get the message.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Energizer

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Don't you have a spam filter or junk mail folder? How about changing your email address? How about just deleting her messages without reading them?

She is spinning you a web of sh*t here to try and get you back, do not reply to her or take her back, stay strong, stay firm and find someone else who is mentally stable. :up:
 
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Fvrthebrave

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confused

A few months ago, my gf of two years cheated on me. I promised myself that I would nevre let that happen again.

I've been sring a new girl for a little more than two months. One night her ex bf from sends me an IM telling me that they hooked up and that my gf is "wild and unsuspecting."

She completely denies ever hooking up with him and tells me that he had always tried to hook up with her. (keep. In mind, she hasn't seen him since before her and I started dating.)

The weird thing is, I've seen messages he had sent her. He would write her poems saying how much he loves her still, and it really upsets her.

I'm thinking he is trying to make himself look like the good guy when its actually him with the bad behavior. I told him off and haven't talked to him since. Do you think he was just trying to make me jealous or upset so that I would end thing with her? He seems a little obsessed with her.
 
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