Girl hanging out at my place

[Shalashaska07]

Ok so here's the deal. This girl I know is coming over to my place in a few days to hang out and watch a movie. She seems kinda into me, so I think there's a chance I could get some action. Now this is probably going to sound retarded, but I'm just worried about what I need to do in advance, seeing as though this is pretty must the first time I've had a girl over.

Obviously I'll make sure my room is tidy and stuff so that I'm not looking like a tramp, but I'm worried about other stuff like food arrangements etc. I can't cook for the life of me and she's probably gonna be here for a few hours, so should I suggest we go out for something to eat later in the day? Anything else I should do/think about in advance?

Finally, we're gonna be watching the movie on my bed most likely and I was wondering if anyone had any good advice on escalating things? I've read the thread on the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder which was awesome, but I can't really see how I'd subtly initiate things if we were just watching a movie next to each other.

Any constructive advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

 

[r0cky]

Ask her too cook something. If she doesn't know how to cook then you have something to bust her balls on BIG TIME.
Watching a movie is the easiest way for me to escalate. The problem is you can not start the kinoing once the movie has started. Start the kino way before this. By the time you're putting the movie in the VCR (or dvd player or beta max lol) she should already feel comfortable with your touch.

YOU MUST HAVE HUGGED HER OR HELD HER HAND BEFORE THE MOVIE.

Its very difficult to start kinoing during the movie.
You'll just be waiting for that right moment, and even if you think the right moment has come you're not going to be comfortable, and she wont be comfortable, enough to advance the kino.

My routine for this is preferably watch a scary movie.
Then tell her "You better not start screaming at the scary parts"
Her "I usually do" or something like that
You "aw thats so cute, i'll make sure you don't get scared"
Now you can put your arm around her.

OR

her "I won't"
you "are you SURE?"
she will respond with one of 2 things:

A. "I have you next to me so I won't feel scared"
This is where you reward her with a hug and just leave your arm around her, if you're in bed then she will accomodate her self and even put her head in your chest.

B. "I really won't" or sumthing like that.
"Well just in case you do..." Put your arm around her.

 

[02hero]

If you are certain that the girl is gonna be lying on your bed watching a film with you in a couple of days, You have done the hard work already, congratulations. You don't need any clever tricks, she's on your bed, she wants you to make a move. She would be pissed if you didn't......she'll be expecting you to. Don't let her or yourself down......... oh yeah, and be safe

 

[02hero]

BTW the title of this thread should have been "How do I get to hang out of the back of the girl hanging out at my place"

 

[Shalashaska07]

BTW the title of this thread should have been "How do I get to hang out of the back of the girl hanging out at my place"

LOL. Thanks a lot for the advice guys.. it's really appreciated. I'm not really expecting to screw her or anything this time.. just wanna at least get my foot in the door. I'll let you know how it goes.

 

[int3l]

then i've been living on another planet obviously. movies and sex don't seem to work out for me, more heavy making out.

 

[jafyk]

Clean the place up. Do not cook her dinner. She hasn't earned it yet. Have some soda pop and chips laying around to munch on. As far as escalating while lying on the bed: just lean back and put your hands behind your head and relax; be funny and light; enjoy the movie. Because when she notices that you are more into the movie than her, she'll start to compete for you to notice her. But a first time over to watch a movie, especially for a rookie to escalate that into action will be very difficult. You'd probably come across as creepy.

When you're leaning back and you are both laughing at the movie, tell her to slide a little closer. She'll take that little opening and have her head on your chest in no time. BE COOL, CALM AND CONFIDENT. Do not get all touchy weird. Go slow and make her ache for your touch. Good Luck and report back.

I can relate to this piece of advice. My ex-gf the first time we got together to watch a movie. We started watching the movie and I was really into it and later she just started touching me and I knew what she wanted. Well, what can I say I did give it to her. Oh well that's history. Well, after a while into the movie if she doesn't bust the first move touch or smell her hair, touch her lightly (kino) and then withdraw and then do it again. You can give her a shoulder massage. let her reactions guide you. If she resists try again a lil later but if you still get the same response try one more time.