"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheMan425

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usually girls are hardest to approach when they're with their friends. i know alot of guys will be thinking "oh ill wait to talk to her when she's alone". i know im like that sometimes. it sucks. alot of times ill feel more confident when im with my friends, its the same with girls.

so how do you go about approaching a group?

and how do you maintain yourself?

i can name a few times where i started talking to a group of girls and they just went on talking to their friends and im just sitting there like... :nervous:

im sure im not the only one who wants to know so lets hear some feedback
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WC2

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Groups of girls are harder to manage if you don't have what it takes. The key is to be friendly and in a way, hit on all of them. Not only does this make you seem like a charming guy to all her friends, it makes the girl wonder if she is really the one you want.
 

oakraiderz2

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Focus on your targets friends more so than the target. Make playful comments like "is she always like that?" Like wc said, charm all of them. Once you're won them over ask if you can borrow your target and get the number.
 

Skilla_Staz

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I like groups of girls. It's less pressure on me. The friends always offer something, whether it be information on my target, something to joke about, ways to make my target jealous or whatever. Besides, if my original target doesn't pan out the way I want, theres always a friend to go after.
 
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