"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SO this girl I met off match.com banged me the first night and then said she just used me for sex, no interest in dating. So whatever.

We didn't talk for a month then I sent her this email (I was just joking).

The title was "Thinking of you"

I included this link in the email

http://www.compfused.com/directlink/1117/

LOL... the hoebag wrote back all insulted. I erased her email already but it said something like

" Your mother shold have taught you about respecting women. How can anyone think someone as wonderful as me be like that.
Stop writing me. I don't like your world"

LOL... so this ***** sucks my d!ck and f*cks me a half hour after we meet and she's offended by that?? It was just a joke LOL.

I should have formulated a better reply I just replied
"It was a joke... take a valium and relax!"

What should I have said?
 

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haha, cool video...

dont worry about her dude she's a *****.
 

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The same lesson backbreaker and all of us learnt with the ho. Hos don't like to be treated as hos.
 

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Is she really offended, or looking for me to be AFC and apologize or something?

I mean this b!tch admitte she used me for sex. Sucked my d!ck on the first date. ****ed my brains out for 2 hours. Then left my place saying "it was fun, buh-bye!"

Should I reply again with a better email, or just leave it be?
 

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Originally posted by Thugo
I should have formulated a better reply I just replied
"It was a joke... take a valium and relax!"

What should I have said?
Um, actually I think you said the best thing you could have done.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I should have thrown in there

"after all, hos don't like treated like hos"!
 

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Funny. She acts like a complete hor, then lectures you about how to treat woman like ladies, and respecting them.

Nice double standard there.

Respecting women in their minds = putting up with all their bullsh*t and horish behaviour.

Being a misogynistic woman hater = not putting up with their bullsh*t and grief and seeing them for what they are.
 

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I am not surprised by her response. I like your sense of humor though. Who cares if the chick doesn't.

fan27
 

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This chic is a nutcase.... I emailed her one last time to open up her aim but she didn't. She even told me "sex is like her drug, I'm addicted to it"... I thought she would think the video was funny.
Maybe she's acting all pissed to get an apology or something.. who the hell knows... time to forget this broad.

Boy, she's going to make some guy really lucky one day.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Funny. She acts like a complete hor, then lectures you about how to treat woman like ladies, and respecting them.

Nice double standard there.

Respecting women in their minds = putting up with all their bullsh*t and horish behaviour.

Being a misogynistic woman hater = not putting up with their bullsh*t and grief and seeing them for what they are.
good post... I might email her that.
 

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I learnt the hard way too, but I won't give my time to women like this. Be more selective in future! Take time to get to know them a bit first or use them for sex and don't expect anything else.
 

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it's funny when you read a random ass post and see your name and situtation in it..

Yeah, that's a lesson I learned the hard way. And now that I thought about it, I didn't do anything to treat her like a *****, but I didn't necessarly help her confirm that she was a daddy's little girl either, something she was trying the entire time to convince me.

The only thing good that came out of that night was she put me on this new drink that I am hooked on
 

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LOL she came back at me with this reply (keep in mind, I didn't contact her for over a month and she says I'm harassing her. Should I bothe replying? I'd like to but this lying b!tch in her place.

"I have never 'acted like a *****'. I what I did was make a tremendous mistake of having a one night stand with a complete loser who continues to harass me with email and be obsessed with me.

I do not find your 'jokes' in the least bit funny. They offend me.
When you call me a *****, you insult and offend me.
When you equate 'respecting women' with 'putting up with bull**** and whorish behavior', you insult and offend me and all women.

Why don't you go ask your mother how she feels about how well your father has 'put up with all her bull**** and whorish behavior' over the years?

YOU ARE THE ONE HARASSING ME. YOU ARE THE ONE THAT WILL NOT LEAVE ME ALONE. I DON'T LIKE YOU. I DON'T LIKE YOUR PERSONALITY. I DON'T LIKE HOW YOU THINK. I DON'T LIKE ANYTHING ABOUT YOU. I DON'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU.

STOP HARASSING ME."
 

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dude leave her alone man, shes already done with u,
u should just stay on top of the game then sinking further into the your bull**** u keep giving her,

u need to learn something and that is respect for other people,
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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