"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Girl gone cold after 3rd date out of nowhere

evilguy_

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Quick answer. As Rollo's rules and others have said. Frame is paramount. Think frame right now and you control the shots.
Frame is liquid yes but after this post from you the frame has to come back to you. If that means you flake on her. You flake. No questions
I flake yes.. IF she tries to set a date. I think she just wants attentions.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So i met her again we had the best date so far, ended at my place again.

She's still talking about travelling together but she almost never initiate convs. Ok i told her i don't like to text but still.. the others women were texting me all the time.

I have to fu**ing stop overthinking probably.
 

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It's never a bad idea to kick the sex up a notch or ten, either. One of the hallmarks of abundance is you won't care about any one girl and as a result you'll f*ck her, not "make love" or other such phaggotry.

The more a girl is into you, the more she'll do for you sexually. You lead by example. If she's reluctant, withdraw the D -literally and figuratively- and she'll know that the missionary sh!t she practiced in high school won't fly here & now, and she'd better present that sphincter for painal.

F*ck her raw and she won't stay away. I disagree with all the "no porn" wisdom out there. If I hadn't watched so much porn I'd be a pretty vanilla lay, as would most of us.
 
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