"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok I found a gold mine today!!!!! CHURCH. Some would say its shallow to go to gods house to mack..But there were alota hotties walkin around, an they wernt slutty which is a big factor to me. The bigger the church the better ur chances try it once its worth it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by zx2not4u
Ok I found a gold mine today!!!!! CHURCH. Some would say its shallow to go to gods house to mack..But there were alota hotties walkin around, an they wernt slutty which is a big factor to me. The bigger the church the better ur chances try it once its worth it.
NOt to sound all preachy and all, but you are missing the point of church if all you go for is to hit on girls. First God, then girls. At least in church.
 

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I do go to church for god the girls are a side effect
 

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As long as we clear on that , then I am with you there.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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Church is one of the few places in this day and age where you can find nice girls that aren't all b|tches and hos.

zx2not4u, I am like you. I like traditional/nice girls with some sense of morals and values. Im very picky when it comes to finding gfs, and boy finding girls like that are rare as a needle in a haystack these days :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I agree a lot of the church goers are nice although I myself am agnostic since I wasn't raised in a religious environment.

Anyhow, I'd like to give a word about Asian chicks in church. PErtaining to the ones I know, they are the biggest attention mongering hypocrites I know. For example, this one girl goes to church and teaches her little youth group stuff about not having a BF and talks loud and holy during some circle bonding they did. But guess what? She plays a wh*re in a school play and has gone through 3 boyfriends herself. Awesome. Not.

Anyhow, just be critical of those Asian girls because I think a lot of them are doing it to fit into the whole white thing. This chick is a Christian. Not all are like that, but that's just what I see a lot.

Now Catholics are kinda different in my experience because they're kinda down to earth and don't play games with me. Very straightforward type. Eh, whatever. I do'nt know what that was for, but I had to tell you guys probably just to say not all church goers are innocent.

I want a down-to-earth, nice girl too and I mean...I don't mind if they do stuff, but to be a total hypocrite and act like you're better than everyone? That's not acceptable. I learned all this from 1 weekend at some retreat thing I got dragged into.
 

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I agree with Kerensky on the part that not all churchgirls are innocent.
 

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Around here, theres a group of girls disaffectionately known as the "God Squad". While some of them are hardcore believers and stand true with their beliefs, most of them are some of the hypocrytical, *****y people you will ever meet. I respect those girls who hold true to their morals, especially considering the immoral time we are living in, but some of them, wow. Just be careful dealing with them.
 

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Originally posted by redbyte
I have been going to a Christian School and been going to church all my life.

So pretty much all the girls I talk to our nice. It was only when I got a job at McDonalds a year ago that I realised what a blessing it is to go to Christian school.

It just doesn't compare. From what I have gathered, most of the girls from state schools and such are trying to fit in, therefore have sex often, go through many BFs and generally act like a tramp.
*NOTE* I am not saying this about all girls in state schools. Just some of the ones I have met.

Anyway, GOD before girls. But apart from that, Church is uplifting, and a great social event. :D
is that a problem
 

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irony, all the girlz at church have high morals yet from a philosophical point a view of history, God has been responsible for demorlizing humans in many situations.


just some irony i may point out.



as you can see im not religious, so going to church to mack on girls would not be a problem for me.....except that thats a freak'n waste of time and im not gonna go that far out of my way to meet girls
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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