"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl going back to old boyfriend.

MrDroogie

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I have been talking to this girl while she has been talking to her ex-boyfriend that she still "loves". He has been straight up crawling back to her.
Probably a bad idea but w.e.

We made out last night, talked, and then we slept in the same bed.
I haven't put any pressure on her to decide. I'm just trying to do my own thing.

I just got a text from my friend stating what she texted her best friend (who did not approve of this last night) supposedly saying...

"I don't even know why I did it. I don't even like him like that I love _____ and I am done being single."

She has been honest to me about the whole situation so far...

What do I do??? And if she tells me she picked him?????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Robert28

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MrDroogie said:
I have been talking to this girl while she has been talking to her ex-boyfriend that she still "loves". He has been straight up crawling back to her.
Probably a bad idea but w.e.

We made out last night, talked, and then we slept in the same bed.
I haven't put any pressure on her to decide. I'm just trying to do my own thing.

I just got a text from my friend stating what she texted her best friend (who did not approve of this last night) supposedly saying...

"I don't even know why I did it. I don't even like him like that I love _____ and I am done being single."

She has been honest to me about the whole situation so far...

What do I do??? And if she tells me she picked him?????
dont sweat it and give her the peace sign when she tells you what you think shes going to. she obviously doesnt care about you from what she supposedly told her friend, so why care back? if she does go back to him it wont last. they never do.
 

rtb227

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you got the k-close. move on. find another girl, this girl is going back to her ex. It didn't work once it won't work the second time. they are both wasting tme, don't waste yours on her
 
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