"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl goes on crazy rant after guy cancels on her

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheCuckSlayer

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Lol, I smell troll. No b1tch that illiterate is using the words hobbit, gremlins, and elves properly as insults.
 

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I would roll on the floor and laugh so fvcking hard if I ever got that response, and I might piss her off further for more entertainment. Wouldn't date in a million years.
 

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Classic BPD behavior. A perfect illustration. She was shocked out of her mind that she was "rejected" (in her perception".

Its the reverting to an insane 13 year old that we're seeing her. Classic.
 
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