Girl goes cold after really bad sex.

[69waystodie]

Hey this is my first post here, but I'm active on some other forums.

Anyways,

I met this girl at a party 2 weeks ago and took her home, and we've been sort of booty calling each other for a few nights. Anyways, she was finally down to have sex thursday, and the sex was like really really bad. I had super bad whiskey ****, and she called me out for not going down on her or not trying to make her *** at all in the times we've hooked up. I was pissed at first and she apologized, but then I told her I made the mistake of telling her I guess she was right, and she went *****y again.

Anyways, Since thursday, shes gotten super cold. Flaked on our date plans for tonight, and has been super unresponsive to texts. I called her out on it, and told her I'm usually super good in bed and I'll make her *** super hard next time I see her, and she responded with a "dying..dead" (of laughter I'm assuming?) then didn't text me back after that.

Any way to recover? she's a dime, but I'm also a little offended.

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

You said you made the mistake of tell her she's right but you're incapable of getting a woman off? Seems like you have the problem here.

Step up your game, either learn how to be good with your fingers, mouth, or last longer in bed. I would be insulted if a girl ever told me she never got off. I've never had that problem, girls usually have to stop me because they can't handle it.

Gotta be good in bed to keep a dime.

 

[69waystodie]

I can definitely get her off, I've just been completely wasted every time we've hooked up and just fallen asleep after busting.... The problem right now is arranging another meet up to happen.

 

[rhythmic]

In this circumstance, think of women like a high-pressure job. If I showed up to a studio session (I'm a drummer) and played like sh*t, I wouldn't expect them to call me again.

 

[dub_g]

The only time I think a girl would react like that to poor sex is if you make a big deal out of it. You did well originally to not take her s### when she attacked you about not making her c##, but as you acknowledged yourself you then apologized and the supplicated to her:

"told her I'm usually super good in bed and I'll make her *** super hard next time I see her".

To be honest I think her response of laughter was probably valid.

I don't think all is necessarily lost with this one, just remember not to apologize or supplicate. Unlike some of the previous "sex god posters" above who have never failed to bring a woman to a quivering orgasm, there have been too many times that I care to admit that my performance has been sub par but they have ALL come crawling back (if I even gave her my details.)

Don't contact her again until she contacts you (I suspect she may) but in any case there are plenty of other girls out there dude. Live and learn.

P.S did she stay? There is always the morning? Girls never remember the quick draw first time around if you get back to work in the morning. Also maybe don't drink so much - there is definitely a point of diminishing returns there!

 

[zinc4]

Hey this is my first post here, but I'm active on some other forums.

Anyways,

I met this girl at a party 2 weeks ago and took her home, and we've been sort of booty calling each other for a few nights. Anyways, she was finally down to have sex thursday, and the sex was like really really bad. I had super bad whiskey ****, and she called me out for not going down on her or not trying to make her *** at all in the times we've hooked up. I was pissed at first and she apologized, but then I told her I made the mistake of telling her I guess she was right, and she went *****y again.

Anyways, Since thursday, shes gotten super cold. Flaked on our date plans for tonight, and has been super unresponsive to texts. I called her out on it, and told her I'm usually super good in bed and I'll make her *** super hard next time I see her, and she responded with a "dying..dead" (of laughter I'm assuming?) then didn't text me back after that.

Any way to recover? she's a dime, but I'm also a little offended.

You shouldn't have told her anything and ignored her...in fact, I would have told her listen, for a new girl, you sound like too much work for me and if it was that bad, then you are welcome to go find others...i mean this is new chick you are banging...if you want to be short than make it short...if you are too drunk too bad for her...she hasn't earned anything yet from you...don't supplicate...especially to a chick you just met...

Geez....you are the man not her...put her in her place and she will always be apologizing to you and second guessing herself.

The whole thing sounds like a big sh&t test to me...one that you failed....i mean who says you have to eat every girl out you just met and give them long sex sessions??? If i had to guess, i would say you most likely had already given her several signs she could control you before this happened. If you want to sex her up then great, but if you don't or are too drunk, then that is your business. Stand by your actions.

 

[GotED?]

I personally DO NOT go down on women because I think it is disgusting.

I can get her off with other ways.

If a woman D!CKtates that she wants you to go down on her and eat her:

1) she's already lost respect for you by making the demand

2) you have lost your frame and giving in to her demands

I don't do nothing I don't want to do, including going down on a woman. I can't believe you men out there don't find it totally disgusting. Maybe I am just O-C compusively clean type of person.

Anyways. Moral of my post is - if you don't do it, and she demands it, tell her to take a hike and NEXT.

With respect,

Exodus