69waystodie
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Sorry, posted this in the wrong forum!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Girl goes cold after really bad sex.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
JimmyBizzle
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I would say next, she sounds like a royal b!tch personally. 6 billion women on this planet. Go to another party and get yourself a new one. You sound like you got game and know what you're doing. I have faith in you.
gravityeyelids
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Your fault is allowing what she's said to phase you. As a DJ you can get any girl you want and can care less what she thinks of you. You shoudnt have apologized because if you held the frame that shes in the wrong, then that's what she'll take as reality.
If shes been "super unresponsive" to texts, then you are texting her too often. You need to freeze her out for a week or two and go after other girls.
If she's a dime, then she likely has guys lined up begging for sex. And if you provide her with lame sex, she's not gonna keep coming back. Unfortunately the point of booty calls is for both parties to get off, so essentially your 'relationship' with her is strictly physical.
From my experience its bad to text booty calls frequently. It's okay to flirt with her once in a while or whatever, but don't hit them up to hangout more than like once a week (because you are a high value man and have other girls and need to split your time amongst them)
If shes been "super unresponsive" to texts, then you are texting her too often. You need to freeze her out for a week or two and go after other girls.
If she's a dime, then she likely has guys lined up begging for sex. And if you provide her with lame sex, she's not gonna keep coming back. Unfortunately the point of booty calls is for both parties to get off, so essentially your 'relationship' with her is strictly physical.
From my experience its bad to text booty calls frequently. It's okay to flirt with her once in a while or whatever, but don't hit them up to hangout more than like once a week (because you are a high value man and have other girls and need to split your time amongst them)