Girl givining number but not answering

[Jetleg]

Hey everyone, i read in this forum from time to time and decided to contribute for a change...

first of all, i have to state that i'm by no means desperate, but the situation is a little bit weird i have to say:
i met a girl at a waiting room (and no, not at the doctor) we talked for like 30min, it went smooth and i made her laugh alot. as we both were done (it was some kind of an Office) she decided to go with my Metro line , although she lives in another Part of city. the whole time she touched me at every opportunity she had.

In the train she mentioned we should meet again , i asked her for her number, and she gave it. she even told me before leaving the following "well you have my name and my number" - as if making sure that i should contact her again.

i texted her like 2 days after, just saying its me and writing something related to something we spoke about, she didnt answer. the next day i called her, and got no answer as well. (maybe she gave me a false number?)

I do have to mention, she was probably like 4-6 years older than me, and taller than me as well , what do u guys think ?

 

[El Payaso]

I think you should use your voice and phone her

Read his post again. He said he called her.

OP, don't beat yourself up or bother trying to figure out what happened. Maybe she got back with her ex. Maybe she accidentally or purposefully gave you the wrong number. Maybe she faked interest for validation. Maybe she got cold feet.

Who knows and who cares? Just chalk it up and move on to the next.

 

[nismo-4]

Your princess is in another castle. Move on, she already did.

Case closed. Exit my courtroom.

 

[Maximus Rex]

What You Need to Realize About Phone Numbers

A woman will give you her numbers for a myriad of reasons and those include, she genuinely wants to talk to you and hook up with you at a later date. She was caught up in the good emotions that you were giving her and she gave you her number on impulse, (kinda like when she buys those Red Bottoms that she can't afford,) or she gave you the number to get rid of you. Rex says all of that to say this, NUMBERS ARE MEANINGLESS.

When you have a chick in front of you, you have to do more to solidify the number close. What I suggest is that you the next time you're hollerin' at a chick and at the high point of that conversation, you bounce her to a nearby location, say a Starbucks, Cold Stone Creamery, Subway's, or another eatery. Once you're at the location continue building comfort and rapport. While you're in the new location go for the number. This will increase her chances of responding when you call, because when you bounced her to new location, you (as a matter of general principle,) built up a minimum level of trust and comfort, (why else would a woman accompany a stranger for food she didn't feel safe with him.) If you try this method, women would be apt to respond to your phone calls and return your texts.

 

[Redwood]

Sh1t happens.

Move on.

Continue gaming.

The game won't stop.

End of story.

 

[El Payaso]

Read again. He said he texted her.
I told him to use his voice and phone

What are you talking about? He said he called her in his second to the last paragraph but she didn't pick up. It's right there.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Here's the trick you see....

You give them your number. This achieves two things which work in your favour:

1) It provides her with a little bit of power initially (i.e. it puts the power of the first text in her hands).

2) Number one is a false positive, as it a) shows that you aren't really bothered if you hear from her or not, which you shouldn't be, for a girl you just met, and b) when she does text, which she probably will, thanks to (a), you know that there was at least a glimmer of interest on her part. And so the game begins.

Never take numbers. Only give them.

 

[Jetleg]

Thanks for the answers guys. i called her again after a week and asked her out.

 

[om1xr]

VERY common. Western world is replete with female flakers.

You did nothing wrong. Keep putting yourself out there. For every 10 numbers you collect, half of them may flake. Just expect it and let them go after they don't respond.

Time to move on.

This. You shouldn't take girls or life in general too seriously because there are a lot of things that will be out of your control.

some girls will not answer because they are busy. some won't answer because they know exactly what they are doing and play hard to get and most times they succeed to mess with your head and make you more invested in them by thinking about them because they are masters in confusing you.

some will just be uninterested because it is what it is.