girl gives you her facebook instead of number

[pyros]

So, if this happened to you...would you add her as a friend and try to ask her out? or would you just not even get her facebook and send her to the curb?

I think if she doesn't want to give you her number she is not interested, but if you just met her for one minute or two...would you always think she's not interested if she's not giving you her number?

 

[Mike32ct]

Don't accept the consolation prize.

It's phone number or forget it.

 

[latinnova]

I never had much luck on facebook. Deleted that crap and all other social media. Keeps you more mysterious and they have to work at finding everything about you, rather then going to your personal portfolio and romantic resume instantly on facebook.

I have had wayyyy....... and I mean 100% more success cold approaching woman where ever I may see them. Facebook gives the edge to the woman because you are completely in their territory. Every once and a while I would get and old girlfriend that would contact me inquiring about meeting up and what not, but they seemed to always have been married and I don't play that kind of game. I love meeting new people and can do way better in person.

I have to get their numbers now as facebook doesn't exist for me, so it's their number or nothing. And it's always the number.

 

[Father Joseph]

Hey! I suggest you read my story here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2175050#post2175050

 

[bigneil]

Generally, women keep texting to romantic interests (or tricks or drug dealers). People who they are happy to hear from. When they downgrade you to email or Facebook, it's usually a brush-off.

That said, when you first meet someone, if you get their FB (or even their name and permission to write) you can message them, so you still have a chance. Write to her. It can lead to getting her number and/or sex, but NEVER ask them to be your FB friend. If they ask you, you can accept but it might be better to keep that part of yourself secret.

 

[VladPatton]

Phone number or go home. Don't be another member of her audience on The Facebook Popularity Show. What the fück are you gonna do with her Facebook? Give her Likes on the new photos of the pork chops she's having for dinner?

If she gives 2 shıts about you she'll give you her number. Just say "I don't use Facebook, sorry", and leave her standing there. Done and done.

Men take care of business and solve problems quickly and efficiently.

 

[christoff522]

So, if this happened to you...would you add her as a friend and try to ask her out? or would you just not even get her facebook and send her to the curb?

I think if she doesn't want to give you her number she is not interested, but if you just met her for one minute or two...would you always think she's not interested if she's not giving you her number?

Well, you have to wonder why she would want a facebook? To look at your photos perhaps, check out whats going on in your life, see if you're a worthy candidate?

I know that if I get a girls fb it's to see her pics, look her over. If I wanted her number it would be to talk to her, arrange a date. Its the intention behind it. People give out numbers as a symbol of interest, its the "hollywood" way. Facebook is more childish, vain. I would suggest sending a message as soon as you add her asking her if she wants to hang/date. If she says no you have your answer. Don't mess about.

 

[hudpes]

if you just met her for one minute or two...

In those two minutes you didn't make her feel comfortable enough for her to want to go out with you, so she politely told you to fvck off. If you ask for a phone number, a straight NO, is too direct, insulting even, a "I don't give my phone number around" is a workaround, hinting that you weren't just there yet when you asked, alternative means of contact is the least offensive option, because it leaves the guy with (fake) hope, and he can go on with some semblance of a smile, so no hurt feelings, and perfect safety, she can de-friend and block any time.

I wouldn't know how to play this game... it doesn't really compute with what I know. You can't chit chat to increase her interest level and she won't accept a direct suggestion for a date. It can't work, I'm pretty sure of that.

 

[El Payaso]

She wants an orbiter. Plain and simple. Same reason why they put their Instagram and Facebook usernames on their online dating profiles.

 

[nismo-4]

That is nothing more than an invite to be one of her e-orbiters. Don't accept that sh*t. It's either phone number or walk away. Unless you like feeding attention wh0res' egos. I hope not, because this is a polite rejection like LJBF.

Oh yeah, would she try to make that millionaire male model some e-beta orbiter or virtual friend? Nope, she would be giving her number and home address before a better looking woman snatches him up.

Case closed.

 

[Çharismo]

Let me lay something out for you.

This is coming from a good looking guy who has a "great" facebook profile. I crafted it as uniquely as possible...pictures of me modeling, baby pictures, traveling etc. I've done all types of experiments on Facebook and the thing I'm going to tell you and anyone else reading this is to never use facebook to ask a woman out. You can add random people as friends and if they accept that's cool but leave it at that. You can have short conversations with women and that's as far as you will get. Don't ask women out over facebook.

Do it in person.

Whether she has low interest level or not you will only find out if you have the balls to ask her out face to face in person.

--Gentle persistence is the key --

If she tells you to add her on facebook that's basically a rejection. Don't fall for it!!!

Facebook, twitter, instagram are all bullsh!t. It's all a ploy to get attention that most people lack so don't get sucked into it. This is what most people do on facebook....they update there "status's" everyday, post pictures of food, there kids, getting married, random bull**** and videos. Again never ask anyone out over facebook. Even pictures that people post you have to look at them very carefully. Women will post pictures from angles hiding there ugliness.

If it were me I would just add her for the fAck of it just to boost up my friends count and that's it. I have a facebook account as well just to have an online presence but what I'm doing now is trying to max out my friends list and all I use it for is to watch videos that people post up and stay up to date with what's hip or what are the new trends that everyone is following for example :- ALS Ice bucket challenge. It's a good way to stay in tune with what's going on in the world but other than that it serves no purpose.