"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl gives me # on Valentines Day

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This girl at my work was on her last day and left me a note with her #/email on it before she left. Ive waited a couple weeks already but i was thinking to hold off a bit as i has some thing s to take care of. Is there such a thing as holding off too long?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WTF why would you wait a couple weeks? At the very least I'd think it's common courtesy to respond promptly to a woman who is taking a risk and throwing herself out there for you
 
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It says "spread rep before giving to sage again" but yes. You have waited for much too long because you are chicken.

I know dude- I was there. This cute girl working the cash register a couple of years ago gave me her number on a piece of paper. Actually, she was too shy so she gave it to one of the cooks, who then gave it to me.

I waited so long to call that by the time I finally did, she wasn't interested.

Lesson learned: When you have a number, call quickly to lock it in and/or before you lose your nerve. (no 3 day wait garbage because then you'll put it off).

Although I should add that if you personally feel like calling in 3 days, there are no real hard and fast rules.

Just don't wait 2 weeks man. Never again.

DonDiscovery: The advice was for the OP specifically as well as anyone who is a procrastinator. For rest of us, there are no rules b/c inner state trumps all.
 
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3-4 days about the right time? definitely not 2 weeks.

EDIT: Darth, is that piece of advice for newbies or everyone?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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