"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl Gives Me Her Number With Almost No Effort/Communication???

ENIGMA16

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Weird situation. I met this girl who is a friend of a bunch of friends on a bus through a friend a couple of months ago. She's pretty cute and really cool. Back then I wasn't really interested in pursuing her because she was going out with an acquaintance (and before you hate on me for not going for it anyways, he was a bartender at my favorite bar so fvck if I'm gonna go for that back then!), so it was just small talk or whatever until I got off the bus.

Fast forward to a few nights ago. She's long broke up with the guy and single. It's like 1 in the morning at this bar and so I end up chatting with her for only literally maybe 5 minutes. I was pretty drunk and I remember teasing her a bit but no flirting or anything like that, so nothing sexual or projecting interest. I don't see her the rest of the night, but at the end of the night I just walk up and be like "You should give me your number" and she does.

Now obviously I'm going to pursue this as normal (i.e. as if she was throwing herself at me), but I was wondering what you guys think is going on here that she'd just straight up give me her number like that. I guess this thread is more of a "what does this mean" than "what should I do" because I'm just going to pursue it as normal. :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ARrocket

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kingsam said:
it means you aced it...
Right. You had met her before, you spoke to her again, she was comfortable, possibly drunk, so she gave you the digits. What's important is that you know what to do from here. :rockon:

PS: You have a PM, JLay87
 

Pimp-sicle

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At this point no one really knows what it means. As others have mentioned, girls give out there number all the time. Some know right then and there that they have no intention of ever seeing you again, others maybe interested enough to potentially want to go out with you and lastly some ARE very interested and can't wait to see you next.

Numbers are nothing to get overly excited about and analyze. The bigger question will be answered once you call her up and she agrees to meet up with you for a date.





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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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